mmmk.....well i've liked this guy for eh 3 yrs i think and we r pretty good friends. i like him A LOT but am scared to make a move cus i dont kno if he likes me. i keep getting mixed signals and stuff from him so i have no clue how he feels. its driving me freaking crasy. i have no way of getting in touch with him cept for AIM and he is never on! i have asked his friends to tell him but they never get around to it and i just really need to have a way to tell him b4 its too late! the reason i didnt tell him during skool was because i dont like rejection(even tho it happens i kno) and i felt like i was being pressured to tell him. also if he did like me and ask me out i would go otu with him but whenever we broke up i wouldnt want our friendship to b akward or not b friends at all. what to do?!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? erincsurfs answered Friday July 2 2004, 8:17 am: ok i just went threw this i liked this guy from 8th grade im in 11th now i really liked this guy a hole lot but i was afrad of rejection and when i moved away in the begening of the year i relized i should have said somthgin so my last night there a saw him at a party and told him that i have liked him sence 8th grade and it turned out he liked me to but we where both afrad to say anythgin sooo go for it maybe during school asking him for his phone number or ask soo see one of his friends cell phones and go threw the phone book(it sounds stuped but it works)and about the friendship part if u went out and broke up u probly wouldnt talk for a little wile after but im sure u two will look back and say rember when we went out( and think lol) [ erincsurfs's advice column | Ask erincsurfs A Question ]
KiSsEs answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 11:40 pm: Maybe you should ask his friends for his # or sumtin....find some way to get into contact with him so you can tell him how you feel. It's ok to be scared of rejection but you run away from it forever?! Just face your fears and ask him if he see's apossibilty of yall two hookin up anytime soon. If yall are really meant for each other to be friends then if yall went out and then broke up you would still be friends. yes it may feel awkward at first but things change! ~KiSsEs~ [ KiSsEs's advice column | Ask KiSsEs A Question ]
Mizz_C answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 9:39 pm: I think that you should tell him as soon as possible. Just simply go up 2 him and say that yo been having feelings for hom for a long time now and that you want too get to kno him better. IF he doesnt want to be with you just say that you wouldnt mind being hiz friend cuz a friend is better then nothing..Hope i helped=).
Maisie answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 8:35 pm: If you have no way of getting in touch with him, perhaps you should begin looking for someone that you CAN keep in touch with.
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