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me & ryan ex boyfriend, we're realllyyy close. we used to hang out everyday and always talk on the phonnee. then about 2 months ago we stoped. he stoped calling and stoped hanging out with mee. then about 2 weeks ago a girl who likes everyone, started to like him. and i thought i could trust him and no that he wouldnt like her. well he told me he didnt and was pretending then 5 days after this girl sent me proof. a myspace message that he sent her. it said blahblahblahblah i love you. =[ it made me really sad because i knew he wasnt kidding. and he wasnt. i talked him about it and he was like "im sorry for lying and messing things up but there nothing i can do now to make us the way we were. so this is bye." it was very hurtful.=[ then 2 days after that day. i was walking in the hall (in school) and then he was behind me so i tryed to walk a little faster then he was saying my name i knew i shouldnt of awnsered. but i did. i turned around and was like yes... and then he just told me an inside joke he had with someone. i was like okay. but i think he kinda did that just to talk to me. but then that same day on the bus (were on the same bus) me and him were talking and i was like can i just have one more hug and he was like yeah. then while we were hugging my best friend emily said "do you still like her" and he shaked his head no. but he always says he doesnt mean anything he says when were in fights.
so im really confused. should i try to get over him. or maybe talk to him about this.. or something =/
ohh yeah and then the other day i was in the car, and then i relized i missed him alottt. and bursted out in tears.
--confused.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
If he left you, that's his deal; he has his reasons. Does that mean your a bad person? No. You are great. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You may never know why he left, but the fact that he's already talking to someone else makes me think he's over you. If he's over you, you may as well get over him. Telling you "there are more fish in the sea" probably isn't of much consolation, but there are. There are more out there. As far as getting over him goes: Get out, hang out with your friends, play some games. Laughter may not be the BEST medicine, but it definatley helps. Laughter and friends...
Feel free to post back. Hope you feel better! :)
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I dont agree with first answer about bringing back memories. The way i see it if you have to resort to that for making him like you again, you are better off without him. You could try talking to him or writing and explaining the situation. You should be able to come to a conclusion of where you two stand, if he says he isent interested in you, i suggest you move on. Will it be hard? yes, unfortunately in life, in order to find the beauty of love, your heart needs to suffer from time to time so that in the end real love is truly apreciated. Trust me, time heals, and life goes on.
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Hi there!! write him a letter telling him exactly how you feel about him and that you miss him alot, tell him you miss all the goodtimes with him.... Ask him to write back in the end of the letter... If he doesn't write back or if he writes back and tells you he doesn't want to be more than friends or even just friends with you anymore... It might be a good idea to move on, I mean you want somebody that loves you just as much as you love him! Time heals all wounds! Try getting your mind off him by doing things with your girlfriends that you like, go to the movies, do some window shopping, eat lots of popcorn while watching dvd's at home... Fall inlove with a new guy!
Hope I helped! And hope everything works out for the best! :o)
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well...
this is a hard one.
i say...(my advice) call him... talk to him. bring up old memories... make him remember... ask him what his fave memory was and be like yeah thats mine too. then play the 'question game' see heres the rules
1)you ask questions in turns... guys go first.
2)so the guy askes the girl a question and the girl HAS to answer honestly...
3)then its the girls turn.... she askes the guy a question and he HAS to answer it honestly.
4) you stop when your out of questions.
try that.see what you can get him to say. sometimes just talking and old memories stir up feelings that were always there that never went away....that just have been put away.
-jodie
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