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15/f
Posted Sunday March 5 2006, 7:17 pm
Ok, so I like this guy. But, the thing is, I dont see the point of liking anyone is, if they dont like you back, or they do and you totally think they dont. I've liked guys, but, I dont see what the point of liking them is, if they dont end up liking you back! It doesnt make sense, because I just get hurt, from liking them so much and them not liking me back. I know, your probably going to say, i have a while until I get a boyfriend etc. but, I just hate having to like guys...it just...brings me down. I told myself to stop liking someone that I liked for 4 a long ass time, and I mean a long time, I started crushing on him when I was like 12. But, I've been telling myself to just stop liking him, so i dont talk about him with friends or anyt...
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i dont know
Posted Sunday March 5 2006, 6:15 pm
hi, my name is sarah and im 13 i finally have my very first b/f and we have been going out now for about 14 days and last monday at religion i wanted to kiss him but i had a huge cut on my face that looked like a zit and my older brother who is 14 was acting like a 2 year old stabbing me with a pencil and trowing my shoe across the room that kind of stuff and then he ruined the part where i was sopposed to kiss him so tomorrow i want to go and kiss him not a peck and not to long and i want to know if i should just do it in front of everyone or go on the stairs at the end of religion and kiss him long or short? and he is kinda shorter than me so i want to know lik what to do so he doesnt have to reach if u know what i mean? and how do i get ...
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he's cheating on me...
Posted Sunday March 5 2006, 11:49 am
Ok guys i found out last night my cousin was on mu screen name and same from from scotts school im'ed her and said a bunch of people were at a party and i guess scott has been cheating on me i guess he has been dating this girl name ciara for awhile and one of scotts friends asked her if she knew me and him were dating and she said no i guess nobody knew so im going to break up with him he dosent get home until monday and i am supposed to see him tuesday i have the whole convestation from that girl. should i just break up with him monday or see him tuesday i want to say eveything to his face i know he'll deny cheating on me and when he does i want to throw the converstation in his face...i just want to let him have it. so should i judt brea...
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how do i tell him?
Posted Sunday March 5 2006, 9:19 am
okay well im 14 and hes 16.
so i really like this kid, we'll call him steve.
okay well like me and him have been friends since like the summer.. like we didnt talk as much as now so thats why i think he might like me too cause hes always talking to me when he didnt as much before and like he gets really like not upset but kidding sorta when i make fun of him playing around.. like he'll say dont hate =[ i <3 you.. he never put love he would only put the heart but hes said it a couple times and hes like sending mix signals..like always asking me for advice. telling me hes gonna take me on a ride when hes get his motorcyle and if im scared he'll hold me .. (dunno how he would hold me and drive hah) but yeah like he constinantl...
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Have I found the one or is he still to come?
Posted Sunday March 5 2006, 6:05 am
I'm a 22 year old girl and my 24 year old boyfriend and I have been going out for nearly 5 years. I wasn't initially attracted to him but when we got talking I noticed he had a different, positive way of thinking which appealed to me. He was only 19 at the time but he had set up his own business at 17, had a strong desire to make money and was full of remarkable ideas. I had never talked to anyone around my own age who was so focused on their future and wanted the same things I did. He gave me a different perspective of looking at the world which then in turn lead to me starting my own business a couple years later. We both enjoy the fine things in life and are set on reaching our goals of being successful and having financial freedom so we...
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A Teacher?
Posted Sunday March 5 2006, 4:36 am
I like this guy who is kind of a teacher at my college. Is there a rule against dating the staff?
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oh jeeze, guys!!
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 11:44 pm
AHHHH!!! HELP Okay well, theres this guy... we'll call him jimmy and first we were friends and then we wnet out, the first day he was GREAT.We held hands and hugged it was the best day ever, then for the next two weeks he compltely dissed me, now we are really good friends, and my best friend thinks i still like him, i keep telling her now but then she said "why don't you like him?" and the truth is. . i cant think of any reasons why i don't expect that he's a little bit dramatic at times and thats all. My heads telling me no no no but my heart is telling me yes yes yes. I know he doesn't like me but it justs breaks my heart when i see him fliritng with anotehr girl. When me and him are haning out it's all good, but then when a n...
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is this considered cheating?
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 10:48 pm
A married man who I have known for a couple of years, and used to be friends with him and his wife phoned me up recently and asked me if I wanted to meet him in another city. He was getting his trailer hitched to his truck and said it was going to take a couple of hours. He said if I picked him up, while he was waiting for the trailer to be hitched that he would treat me to lunch and we could go shopping, and he'd pay for my gas. When I picked him up he said that he didnt want me to tell anyone we were doing this. First we went to the mall (remember this is in another city). He walked VERY close to me, we could have been joined at the hip. After when we went to a restaurant for lunch, he never mentioned his wife once, and instead was ...
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Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 10:42 pm
so me and cody have been dating for like 20 days. and me and him are as close to perfect (probably not the best word to get my point across) as a couple can get, until it comes to hangin out. like at school hell talk to me and well hold hands and he doesnt care what his friends think. but we had vacation and we made plans 3 times to hang out, HE made them, HE broke them ..
friday he said to call when i woke up, so i did and his mom said shed have him call me. well 6 hours later .. he hadn't called .. so i called and she hung up on me .. cody NEVER called to apolgize or say he couldn't. now hes in maine till vacations over. and his fones off ..
i left him a voicemail sayin it kind of hurt my feel...
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Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 10:41 pm
Hey, ok so i recently just got a boyfriend and i love him! but i feel like he likes me more in a sexual way than he does emotionally. should i do something?
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i like my guy friend but were both just too shy
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 10:25 pm
i have a really big great circle of friends, mostly girls but we hang out with a few guys too. So, i have a crush on one of my guy friends, and my friends brought up that we would make a good couple, after that i fessed up to acctually liking the guy. After that they told me that they thought that he was flirting with me that night (before the guys went home, and the girls slept over), i am not the best at judging this sort of thing, but he is just a nice guy, and there were mostly girls at the party so he had to sit next to one of us - so could this mean that he wasn't really flirting and just being himself? he is also very shy too, he doesn't really touch anyone, the most physical contact i have had with him is playing egyptian rat screw ...
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Loving a lost one...
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 10:20 pm
To preface, I came across this site because I did a search for someone that has passed on and found out thatthey used used to have a column here.
From my prespective, she and I had a special time together almost ten years ago. She was two time zones away yet we would be in touch everyday for a few months. I realize this is only a short time, yet I had initially ended it.
In the shortime thereafter, she and I would keep in touch and then because I acted stupidly with words she and I would not converse less and less.
Four years later, I took a trip out to where she lived to visit other people and ended up one night at a bar where she was and we were able to spend some private moments there talk...
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Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 9:38 pm
I've liked this guy for awhile. At the beginning of the year I officially met him at a football game through one of my friends. I had known who he was, but not his name or anything. So it turns out he was really cool. I talked to him a little bit and stuff, but I didn't think too much of it at first, and he had dated like two of my friends so it wasn't the best situation. So around December we started talking more online, and the past few weeks we've been talking some more at school. We're not in the same grade so it's basically just hallways and stuff. Well near the end of December I decided I kind of liked him. I told him in January. This was on the computer. About a month later the subject was brought up again. He told me that he was thi...
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she's not in love!
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 9:37 pm
I have a little sister..and she thinks she's in love. Everytime she gets a new crush, she goes "goo-goo-ga-ga" over him..and then he breaks her heart, and she goes crying to me. She then states how much she loves him even though she only went out with him for a week! She cries and she cries about how much she loves this boy..until she finds another crush another week later! She then states that she is in love with this new boy! She's not just saying it..She actually means it. She really thinks she's in love..and she's only 11!!! It's so frustrating and annoying because when I tell her she's not in love---she gets soo mad. What should I do? This act is getting annoying..she's not in love.
PS she once "loved" a guy she never met over the internet.
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A past hater
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 8:36 pm
Theres this guy i like a lot. Last year, I had a crush on me. For some reason, he started to act wierd and then i found out that he liked me too, but then i stopped liking him. I think i was a little bit mean, but now i think we're cool. He won't talk to me a lot now, but i like him again so i don't know how to get him back.
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weight
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 8:35 pm
ok.. i wanna loose wat b4 the summer.. this way i can like look good in a two piece.. all i wanna do is get rid of the stomach... and the thighs.. but rite now all i care about is my stomach.. i weigh around 130 pounds.. and im 13.. but like everyone says im skinny... but like... i mostly weigh 10 - 15 pounds heavier cuz i have muscles... i have a little stomach but i mean its noticable.. how can i decrease it and how much do i have to do of it per day?? oo yea.. this guy has a crush on me.. but he told my friend he wil lask me out wen im skinnier.. and i eard him say it.. so like... i wanna lose the weight...
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Parents in the way
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 8:35 pm
Ok, so I'm 16. My boyfriend is 17. It's getting increasingly harder to be anywhere alone with him without parents getting paranoid and feeling they have to "check on us". We're both responsible people who make responsible decisions and although both sets of parents know that I feel quite sure there's nothing that will make them feel differently...so that's not what I'm asking. I'm beyond trying to change them.
What I want to know is how to get around it...
I just need some sneaky ideas =P
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I hate his best friend
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 7:55 pm
I like this guy, and we get along great, but me and his best friend just do not get along! I want to eventually date him, but i'm afraid that his friends may influence him otherwise... what should I do?
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crushes
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 6:16 pm
How can you tell if he actually likes you?
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young and in love
Posted Saturday March 4 2006, 5:24 pm
I know that people say you are too young to be in love. But does that mean I can't tell my boyfriend that I love him?
13/F
Thanks so much !!
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