I've liked this guy for awhile. At the beginning of the year I officially met him at a football game through one of my friends. I had known who he was, but not his name or anything. So it turns out he was really cool. I talked to him a little bit and stuff, but I didn't think too much of it at first, and he had dated like two of my friends so it wasn't the best situation. So around December we started talking more online, and the past few weeks we've been talking some more at school. We're not in the same grade so it's basically just hallways and stuff. Well near the end of December I decided I kind of liked him. I told him in January. This was on the computer. About a month later the subject was brought up again. He told me that he was thinking about asking another girl out and that he didn't know me very well. They dated about a week, than he broke up with her for another girl. They've been dating for about a month. About 2 weeks ago the subject was brought up again. He asked my friend if I liked him and she told him yes, he told me he didn't know that I had liked him. I was like, "why not? i told you" and he was like was it on the computer? and im like yeah. turns out I was talking to his brother the whole time! =[ He asked what I saw in him, and I told him. He said he would've asked me out, but he was dating someone else. Ever since we've been flirting like, nonstop. Everytime I tell my friends the stories, they all say he likes me. He is known to be a flirt though. I know he really likes his girlfriend, but is it possible he likes me too? I think about him all the time. He's so different from everyone else. He listens to me, makes me laugh, I actually feel happy around him. I feel like I can be myself without feeling stupid. I don't know if I should tell him how I feel or just continue to be his friend. I don't want to mess things up between him and his girlfriend, but I don't know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lorawhat answered Sunday March 5 2006, 2:02 am: well to me it sounds like you`re doing the right thing so far. since now he knows you like him he probably sees you differently now-in a good way of course. and he and his girlfriend havent been going out for very long and it seems like your guys' frienship is a pretty good one, SO just let him know you`re cool with being his friend (he already knows you like him), and his feelings could lead him to breaking up with his girlfriend for you. you never know, but to me at least, it seems like he likes you and does want to be with you. he just doesn`t want to hurt his girlfriend. [ lorawhat's advice column | Ask lorawhat A Question ]
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