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how to pursue him?


Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 11:26 am

16/f/uk

I'm really interested in this guy. I saw him around college a few times and was very attracted to him, then found myself in a situation where I was with him and a lot of others for an hour. Although we never directly spoke to each, there was a lot of eye contact, secret smiles, eyeing each other up, him watching me etc.

Problem is, he has recently got a girlfriend. Like I said, we've never spoken to each other, & I hardly get the chance to see him.

He goes to the same college as me, I know some people he knows (though not well), from his fb profile I know we have similar taste in music. I've added him on facebook but we havn't spoken.

How can I pursue him?

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Am I pregnant?


Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 11:14 am

Been taking the pill for a month - perfect no problems.

On Sunday had sex (took my pill on sunday morning at 8)

Took My Pill Again At 8 On Monday - Which Was Fine, It Was Also THE LAST pill in the pack

Then had sex on tuesday morning BEFORE the time I would of taken my pill - but didnt take my pill because I finished the packet.

Am I pregnant?
I have to wait 7 days - should get my period then - if I dont should I go to the doctors?

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jelly bracelets


Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 9:44 am

hello. i am 13 and i need to know what the jelly braclets mean. i am wearing brown but i am not at school yet so i dont know what ppl will say. if it is something bad then i wont wear them. please help. these BROWN jelly bracelets are my favorite. they are from the NEW MOON movie.

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Should i stay or leave?


Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 3:29 am

I'm 18 years old and a girl. I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year and a half. We dont really fight much but when we do its usually about his family. They dont like me at all. Which i think its fine doesnt bother but what i dont like is that they want me to respect them when their constantly saying things about me and mean things to me. His older brother who's 23 calls me immature and tells me i need to grow up. He's always making fun of me and once he even said he's gonna burn his clothes because he touched me. if that isnt bad enough my boyfriends sister hates me too now i called someone a jerk and she thought i meant her brother and now is giving a bunch of crap when it didnt even deal with their family.
I'm tired...

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How do I have "The Talk" with my new boyfriend?


Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 2:33 am

20/f, dating a 20/m

My boyfriend and I have been dating for just about two weeks now, and I'm very very happy with him. But I'm really anxious about discussing sex with him.. in my last relationship, we rushed into sex and slept together after only 10 days. It set an unhealthy precedent for our relationship and this time I really want to wait. My new bf and I have made out, but that's it. He's too polite and shy to bring it up, but I know its on his mind, judging by his attitude when we're making out and it gets pretty heavy..

I don't want to rush into sex, but I'm not sure how to start that dialogue with him. I don't even know if he's a virgin or not, and I really want to know but I don't want to just ask him ...

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What to do!


Posted Wednesday March 31 2010, 1:12 am

17/f
so there's this guy at my school that I think I kinda like. I feel soo dumb for havin a sort of crush bein 17 but I can't exclactly help it. Okay so the problem is he doesn't have a facebook an I don't have his number so i don't know that to do...I have pe with him but I don't know how to just go up and randomly start talkin to him. And how would I get his number if I did because I don't wanna seem like a creeper. We have hung out once before at my best friends block party but thy was a while ago and we barely talk. I get the feelin that if I were to take initiative that he would want to talk to me but I just don't know how!!! Please help I wanna talk to him but don't know how to go about it! Thanks in advance!!

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will I look desperate?


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 11:54 pm

Long story short... guy I like asks me to a party at his house. It's a 'housewarming' for his new housemate, who I've never met. This guy and I don't know each other that well.. we were friends through my ex and have been bumping into each other a bit at college recently. Anyway he invited me in person and told me he'd send me the facebook invite after I asked him to, but he hasn't... even though he's been online. I won't see him at college before the party and I'm wondering if I'm actually properly invited or whether he just being nice. Like I said it's technically for his housemate who I don't even really know. This party is like, my chance to actually get with this guy but I don't want to turn up if it's going to look weird. I also forge...

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Second thoughts?


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 11:45 pm

I recently had sex for the first time with my boyfriend who I like a whole hell of a lot. I used to want to be with him all of the time and think of him all of the time. After we had sex, the only thing I think about IS him, but it's thoughts of whether or not I should've done it. I feel like I'm less attracted to him, but I don't want to be. Is this just a phase? Are these the thoughts that might usually follow after having sex? I'm worried that my feelings are disappearing and I don't want them to. I also have thoughts that I probably shouldn't have done it, just because I feel less innocent than I have before, but I don't really regret it. What's wrong with me?

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Hairstyles for grown out bobs?


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 11:28 pm

So, in late December/January, I cut my hair to short length - the back was to the nape of my neck and the front a little past my shoulder, so a longer angled bob. Now, it has grown out to a grown out bob (makes sense, doesn't it? :P) and I am totally clueless on different ways to style it, besides straightening it everyday. Straightening it everyday damages my hair and I want it to grow faster instead of getting split ends and not growing much. My natural hair also makes the ends of my hair flip outward, away from my face, and I hate it. Any tips on how to style it so that I don't have to use a straightener or heat tools and the flipping out of my hair does not occur? Thanks so much!

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Arguing more


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 11:16 pm

Hello i recently got married and my husband has pointed out that i argue with him a lot. I've noticed it too. Whenever he says something or points something out i always have to argue with him and tell him he's wrong. Like for example today he was telling me about a certain breed of dogs and their behavior and immediately without even thinking i started arguing saying thats not true. I've never been like that before. Also i tend to pick fights and get mad easier. Does anybody know why this is and how to fix it? I'm doing my best but i still pick fights and i dont want it to ruin my marriage :(

Thanks!

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Is Ricky Martin really gay? If so, how'd he have two kids?!


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 10:34 pm

My friend called to tell me that Ricky Martin has come out of the closet and has announced being gay but I just can't believe it. I'm a HUGE Ricky Martin fan, and have been since Livin' La Vida Loca came out, but this is a shocker. If he is REALLY gay then how did he have two boys? I know his twins are just a couple of years old or something...wow! Is he REALLY homosexual?

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tattoo ideas


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 10:09 pm

Hello i have been looking at tattoos for a while and i havent found one that i've liked. I'm thinking about putting it on my ankle. My names ashley and i want to have something incorporated with that. My friend has a nice design it spells her name upside down as well as the normal. I thought that was a neat idea. I dont really have a certain thing i like the most, anything really.. Another design i want is something for a couple. My husband and I just got married and i dont want to have his name tattooed on me or anything, but if we had like just a little matching tattoo, but i havent found any like that either. I rate :)

Thanks for all the help guys!

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Born to do something bad?


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 10:07 pm

Is it possible that you could be born evil? or even to do bad? I always hear people saying they were born to do something... and there is the belief that homosexuals are born that way... Furthermore I see serial killers on the news and people say they were just born that way...Is it all about how you were raised or is it just the way you are? So is it possible to be born to be bad person?

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alochol problem with father.


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 8:16 pm

okay, so i don't know how to start this off but im 18 and a female. I'm very close with my mom and not so close with my dad. Growing up he was always like into politics, and always not home and out and about doing whatever he wants. He couldnt drink because he had diabetes and he was overweight and what not. i have an older brother and sister who are in their 30s and my dad was really close with my brother. but now that the both of them have moved out and have families hes never home to be wiht me. So as you can see like i never really have had a bond with my dad..like i dont talk to him about anything, fill him in with my life because hes never home. So recently maybe 4 months ago? he got the bipass suergy i think thats what its called to ...

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Do I want anything to do with him?


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 7:49 pm

I love my english class, not gonna lie. However, there's a boy that sits with me at my group and he is cute.. however I went on his formspring and it said like "why are you so mean to your girlfriend" and he put "because she's my bitch" like.. that's not okay to say whether you're joking or not. Now, his girlfriend and him are apart, they have been on and off but today she gave him her promise ring back and everything. Now, a couple people have been saying he's starting to flirt with me, I just choose not to believe it because 1. I'm not his "type" 2. I don't want to fall for him especially because he isn't a virgin and he calls his girlfriend his bitch 3. We run in two totally different social circles, I'm in ...

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I don't know what to do.


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 7:30 pm

There is a boy. Like 90% of these questions start. He is in my gym class. He's adorably cute but unadorably shy haha. Anyway, like I said, I have gym with him but we are in different squads so basically, I never see him. So, my friend has been talking to him about me and she's been telling me the things he says. Some of the things that come to my mind right now are "I will most definitely be on facebook to talk to her" "I think she's funny, she's to shy to talk to me" or my friend told him today to talk to me when I come down the steps before gym (everyone chills outside the locker rooms before we change) I walked down the stairs, she called his name and he didn't come over but he said he would. So, she was in the gym wi...

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Hm, not good with this stuff.


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 7:18 pm

There's a kid in my lunch period named Jake. Every time I walk in the caf, I have to walk by his table and he looks at me, it's a look that makes me melt. He's adorable and my heart skips a beat when he looks at me. Anyways, when he looks at me, it seems like forever until we look away and I'm usually the one to break the glance. He does it to me in the halls, his locker is near-ish mine and he does it if we walk by each other. Also, today he turned around and saw that I was throwing my tray away so he got up and threw his away too so we would run into each other in the aisle going to the garbage, I know, romantic right haha. He's adorably cute if I din't mention that already haha (: so, do you think he thinks I'm cute or what, like why does he keep looking at me? Thanks.

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The look?


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 7:12 pm

I just want to know what the "look" is? Is it like "oh my, she's perfect, I want her"? I don't know like my one friend tried to explain it by saying you know it's the look because the guy's eyes will get softer and his face will get calmer. I don't understand. So, please explain it and explain if I know when I'm getting the "look". Thanks!

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How to handle a break up


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 6:07 pm

My boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago..we were dating for about 3 months.He was my first REAL boyfriend (im 17) and it was like a real relationship where we talk and hangout and bond ALOT .So you could say for my first relationship it was pretty serious.He broke up with me because "he started to see me as a friend and i was clingy" .I had no idea this was coming so i was devastated.He went on vacation and will be back on Thursday and hasn't spoken to me since the breakup ..except one text .I've been an absolute wreck ,crying the minute i wake up,being upset most of the day and probably crying during the day and ofcourse at night too for the last 4 days. Each day is harder for me because all the songs on my ipod,we used to liste...

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My husband and I are always fighting and arguing


Posted Tuesday March 30 2010, 5:35 pm

My husband and I have been married for a little over 2yrs. He is 36 and I am 28. He is Israeli and I am originally from Canada though I now live in Israel and we speak mostly Hebrew. I mention this b/c it could be a contributing factor to our communication problems and difficulty connecting on deeper levels. My Hebrew is good but it doesn't compare to mother tongue.
We have a 1.5 year old daughter who we both love very much and neither one of us wants to get a divorce. We are both good people with good intentions but we are constantly getting into fights and arguments on a daily basis sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. Its like we really don't along. One of the main causes of conflict is that I am super sensitive to critism. I sup...

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