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how to pursue him?
16/f/uk
I'm really interested in this guy. I saw him around college a few times and was very attracted to him, then found myself in a situation where I was with him and a lot of others for an hour. Although we never directly spoke to each, there was a lot of eye contact, secret smiles, eyeing each other up, him watching me etc.
Problem is, he has recently got a girlfriend. Like I said, we've never spoken to each other, & I hardly get the chance to see him.
He goes to the same college as me, I know some people he knows (though not well), from his fb profile I know we have similar taste in music. I've added him on facebook but we havn't spoken.
How can I pursue him?
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Don't. He has a girlfriend. You can't have everything you want whenever you want it. And if he was your boyfriend would you appreciate some other chick trying to roll up on him? Leave it alone. Its not for you. If he ditches the girl, fine. But for now its a bad idea and it will only make you look like a *witch*, and I'm sure that's not who you are.
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If the guy has a girlfriend then I would not do anything he might end up resenting you for, Not only is trying to get his attention asking for drama but the guy is already in a relationship with someone. If the guy is interested in you and is paying attention to you rather than his girlfriend doesn't that tell you that obviously the guy doesn't know how to be committed? Well, I'm not trying to be harsh but the truth is it probably isn't the best idea to get messed up in someone who is already committed to someone else. I can tell you if someone was trying to come on to my boyfriend they sure as hell wouldn't hear the end of it
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