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ups and downs
there’s this guy who i/‘i’ve like(d) for a really long time and he started talking to me one day and since then we’ve been talking everyday. and we’re like two grades apart so we don’t really talk in school much because we don’t have classes together.
so anyways... i’m pretty sure he likes me now but i’m starting to stop liking him. and it’s not about the chase anymore because for so long i’ve been trying to figure it out - at first, i’ll admit, it was about the chase, but now i’m trying to figure out what’s keeping me from liking him.
i think it’s mostly because i’m so scared of being let down, or maybe even i’m really embarassed (he’s not popular... and i know that shouldn’t matter... but it also gets in the way i don’t know why), he’s not all that good looking, he can get really sensitive sometimes, and i just don’t think it fits together.
he talks to me everyday on chat. and sometimes, i like him... like a lot. but then there are times when i read our conversation and i just really get disgusted for some weird reason. and i’m starting to have feelings for other people as well. i’m trying to talk to him less now... and i’m trying to make things really boring so that maybe he’ll stop liking me. but i’m also scared that if he stops - then i’ll start liking him again (so maybe its a tiny bit about the chase). i know that’s considered a heart breaker - but i should end what i started. i think i led him on in a unconscious way.
so here is what i need advice on:
1. should i go for him?
2. do you think i like him?
3. what’s your opinion on all this?
thanks
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This sounds kind of like what happens to me...
I like the idea of a guy, and the idea of having a boyfriend, but once I get to know him I see maybe we aren't meant to be and it gives me a bad feeling.
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I do like the guy, but for some reason I'm afraid to be in a relationship and I focus on his flaws, making me dislike him.
Does that sound familiar? If you don't like him it's okay to be friends but don't be excessively flirty or lead him on. You could try being in a relationship with him and break it off later if your not into it, if thats okay with you and him. Just do what you feel is best.
Good luck,
-Abby
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Maybe you two were meant to be friends. You've probably lost interest in him. If he bores you when you talk to him maybe you should just stop chasing him. Think about if there's more things you like about him or more that you don't like about him. That should help you. (:
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