I love my english class, not gonna lie. However, there's a boy that sits with me at my group and he is cute.. however I went on his formspring and it said like "why are you so mean to your girlfriend" and he put "because she's my bitch" like.. that's not okay to say whether you're joking or not. Now, his girlfriend and him are apart, they have been on and off but today she gave him her promise ring back and everything. Now, a couple people have been saying he's starting to flirt with me, I just choose not to believe it because 1. I'm not his "type" 2. I don't want to fall for him especially because he isn't a virgin and he calls his girlfriend his bitch 3. We run in two totally different social circles, I'm in the band, he's the higher class, popular, I guess. These are a few things I can think of that he does that make people believe he is flirting with me:
-> He'll steal my favorite purple pen, in plain sight when I'm looking right at him when he is doing it
-> He'll put hand sanitizer on and blow the smell at me because he knows I'm not to fond of the smell
-> He'll take my folder up for me after class
-> He'll ask me to help him quick look over things quickly before a quiz
-> He'll ask me for help when he doesn't understand something even though I'm not the smartest at our table
-> He'll look me right in the eyes for what seems like forever when we talk
-> He;ll say something funny about our teacher and when I laugh about it, he'll look at me when I'm laughing like he likes my smile
-> He'll be walking with a girl in the hallway talking to her and when he passes me, he'll stop midsentence, look at me, then continue.
SO! Do you think he is flirting? Do you think he likes me? If so, what do I do? He cheated on his ex, calls her his bitch and had sex with her. That's all I can think of right now, if anything comes to mind I'll put it in the extra info. Thanks!
If some of these things do mean he's flirting with you, he's quite an immature guy. You didn't mention any ages, but it sounds like he's not past 10th grade. Anywho, you're totally right about not going for him. If he had no respect for his former girlfriend, how can you expect him to respect you? It's possible, but he's made himself look bad already, and that's not classy. Personally, I think you can do way better than this guy, and I wouldn't suggest going out with him until he's went out of his way to better himself. Find a guy worth a lot (respectful, understanding, honest, etc) and you'll be better off. Good luck :)
Razhie answered Tuesday March 30 2010, 9:49 pm: He sounds like he is flirting with you, but that doesn't mean he is serious about it.
It's also pretty clear that you don't want to date the guy at all.
So, if you like a bit of flirting, go ahead and flirt, but decide in your own mind if it goes any further than that. If it doesn't, then don't let it.
Just 'cause a guy flirts with you don't mean he wants to marry you... Some people are just flirts. You can can flirt back if you think it's fun, or you can shut it down if you don't like it. It's really up to you. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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