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will I look desperate?
Long story short... guy I like asks me to a party at his house. It's a 'housewarming' for his new housemate, who I've never met. This guy and I don't know each other that well.. we were friends through my ex and have been bumping into each other a bit at college recently. Anyway he invited me in person and told me he'd send me the facebook invite after I asked him to, but he hasn't... even though he's been online. I won't see him at college before the party and I'm wondering if I'm actually properly invited or whether he just being nice. Like I said it's technically for his housemate who I don't even really know. This party is like, my chance to actually get with this guy but I don't want to turn up if it's going to look weird. I also forget exactly what day it is. Will I come across as desperate if I send him a facebook message asking for the details? I don't want to come off too strongly, just in case he only invited me as an after thought. Or should I just forget about the whole thing?
thanks.
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Guys aren't organized like girls. While you would send out the FB invites like you said, he probably thought about it, but then figured it was good enough that he just told people. He invited you in person, I think that's better than the FB invite. I wouldn't even sweat it. Just go and have a good time. Bring a friend for support if you're worried about not knowing anyone. But its a party! The more the merrier. That's how it works!
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send him a message saying hey so whats up for the party? or gimme the details. it wont be coming off too strongly itll just make it seem that your interested in party/him in a subtle way because he`ll know you remembered
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