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i dont know what to do


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 11:19 pm

my best friend likes the same guy as i do. its no fair cause i liked him first and starting talking to him first. but now she's talking to him and flirting constantly with him. she always gets the guy she wants and i dont think it is right. i dont know what to do. she knows i like him and she still does it. this isnt the first time either. she seriously my best friend and has been since 1st grade. i dont know what to do about her though. i really like this guy and im afraid that if she keeps flirting with him that he will start falling for her and i really dont want that to happen. i invited him to the movies and he said that he would get back to me on that either way. i dont know what that means. what should i do about this?

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A sticky stituation....


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 9:25 pm

Ok... I'm in desprate need of some advice. I was involved in an abusive relationship ( i ended it last year in January) I have since then graduated from high school. When i was in high school I had a little crush on my spanish teacher (i was 18 he was 24), never thought much of it, but i was up at my old school the other day and i saw him again and feelings resurfaced. We talked for a while and he asked me out. This is the first relationship i have even considered entering since ending my abusive one...and i'm not sure if i'm doing the right thing ... please don't say that " i'll know when I'm ready" because thats all i've heard latley ... and it doesn't help...because i'm so confused about the entire thing that i don't know anyt...

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I'm not allowed to have a bf


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 9:24 pm

Ok,
I have a boyfriend BUT the thing is that I am not allowed to have one. I don't know how long my relationship will last before my mom and dad find out...but I really like the guy. If I tell them I have a bf they will freak out...I really don't know what to do! PLEASE help!
(14/f)

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equal sides of an arguement


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 7:05 pm

i think i might be having some boyfriend problems. a few days ago i was like 1% considering that i should break up with this guy i've been going out with. then the next morning it was completely out of the question. i couldnt tell my friends my problem because i knew the moment they heard this, it would be all around the school. the thing is, he's really cute, smart, well-known, and sweet to me. the first time i talked to him on the phone, he seemed like he was myself in another sex! we just had soo much in common, like a lot of the little things. we also had a few things that made us different. i like heights, scary movies, and partying with my friends. he on the other hand, wouldn't dance even if he was paid, likes his feet on the ground,...

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I need help


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 6:59 pm

miNd because he’s going out with me now. My BFF and BF came over to my house one day and I told him I made out with other guys, which I didn’t. I only said it to make myself sound more interesting. I only French kissed a guy once. And we played truth or Dare and even when my Bf and BFF were friends my friends dared them to do stuff like kiss and make out. They chickened out Then after my party he asked me out and I said yes, but my birthday is coming up and when my Bff’s told me the top game we will play is Truth or dare, then I got scarred because now that we are a couple I thought what if people ask us to make out or something? I bet he wont mind because he did it all the time but I said I did too! I partly want to do it for the ...

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what should i do


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 6:41 pm

im at a complete loss of not only words but feelings. i like this guy allot more then i have ever liked any one in my life he made me feel comfortble around him and he made me so happy. over the summer we hung out and he kinda led me on to think we were going to date but ended up dateing my friend i was hert broken. im still nto over it and it was months ago. after he knew how much he hurt me they broke up and our friend ship was basically destroyed. well as months went on he told some of his friends who were my friends tat he like me allot as a girl friend. he now has a girl friend who he says he is in love with he always smiles and waves at me in the hallway i have a boy friend but he doesnt make me feel like the other guy made me feel i ...

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So I am attracted to a friend of mine....


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:54 pm

There is a young man I really like, who is also a good friend of mine. He likes this other female who is, really, the ideal girl. Even though she rejected him, he still wants her. I know I can't compete with someone like her, but still, how can I gain his attention (without being a whore, that is)?

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dumb boy


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:29 pm

Okay, so I like this boy and I asked him out. He said he did't know. Then my friend kept on going up to him and saying "yes or no" and he kept on saying "maybe" or "I don't know" It's getting really annoying because I really want to know! So my question is, does he not want to go out with me? Or does he? I'm just not sure.
13/f

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guys in general + me added to that


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 4:01 pm

well, i have been having bad luck lately, and i dont know why, because last year i could basically go after anybody that i had wanted to go after, and had achieved what i had been wanting almost every time. this year is way different, because i have had only one, and that is crazy.
I dunno why, but i have had quite a few turn downs lately!

Heather

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Abusive BF


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 3:39 pm

so as most of you know i WAS in a relationship with a abusive guy and i told him that i want to break up with him..and he brok two of my ribs...and gave me a cuncution...:-(

but on the flip side hes goin to juvey!! and i realized (thanks to ALL of u!!!!!) that he was an a** hole. plain and simple..and all i get are threatining letters/phone calls..but what i am afraid of is his friends. his friends stick by him 100%..and my house got TP (toilet paperd) and lilke a dead rat was on my door step (says my mom) and like i got threating letters in my locker saying "bitch if u tell ill kill you" or "we know you told hoe, were ganna do what jake did" (jake rapped me.)

so PLZ help!!!!


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cant get over my ex


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 2:57 pm

well my ex and i went out for about 6 months and i got really attached and then she broke up with me at the valentines day dance. well i still have strong feelings for her, but she has a b/f now and im really missing her. well she says she is missing me back and she says she still loves me, but yet she wont brake up with her current b/f to be with me. im starting to fall in love with one of her friends from soccer but i still love my ex more than her friend bu tim getting the feeling my ex is just making up that she misses me, and i told her if she doesnt brake up with her current b/f for me im gonna ask someone else out, but she doesnt know that its her friend from soccer that i like. idk wut to do. plz help me.

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dancing


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 1:27 pm

hey! so my and my boyfriend are going to a school dance this weekend and i have two questions. so i heard from my friend that my boyfriend is gonna wanna grind with me and is gonna wanna french kiss me, and i wanna do that with him too, however i need some tips on how to do these two things, cuz otherwise i won't know how! i rate 5's! THANX IN ADVANCE!

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Thias weekend


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 7:58 am

this week end my best friend's family is coming over for easter. The boy I like is my best friends brother so he's coming to. I'm really worried I'll do something wrong and make him not like me because i think he does like me. what should i do??

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he has such a thick head!!


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 3:34 am

my boyfriend of 8 months has such a thick head! i mean he wont do anything inless i grip at him.... he even says so his self...like my dad is a stricked parent i mean im his only girl so i can see his point but my dad likes to know when my boyfriend comes down because my boyfriend lives a hour away...well anyways my dad likes to know at least a week in advance when my boyfriend comes down to see me ...well he wont do it inless i yell at him...what do i do about it? just yell at him everytime i want something done?

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starting to get to were i can't beleive him...on anything


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 3:25 am

....im with this guy and its great but there is one thing . when he tells me he is going to do things he does do them i mean i guess its just little things but it really bugs me. like when we are on the phone he tells me he has to feed his dog and he will be about 5 mins ...than he calls back around 3 hours later and says sorry.. or he says we are going to hang out today but than he says he cant and than says sorry. he tells me he is going to do things but never does and im getting tired of it..i guess its really the calling thing that bugs me the most but ...is this really anything to stress over or am i being alittle cranky?

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jealous feelings


Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 12:00 am

I love knowing that my boyfriend is caring and trusting but I can't help but feel like I need to watch him. I know he likes me and doesn't want to be with anyone else, but I can help checking the comments he gets from other girls on Myspace or how he looks at other girls. I know its pretty normal for any girl to do that. When he doesn't message me (when he's online) I get nervous that he thinks I'm insane or something. Yet I know that he probably isn't paying attention to the screen, is busy, etc. I've never been like this with any of my other boyfriends and he makes me nervous/intimidated, (In a good way) because he's exactly the type of guy I've always wanted. I just don't want to lose him but I know inside he likes me a lot. How can I de...

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cheating


Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 11:59 pm

i think my boyfriend is cheating on me he went out and bought me a whole bunch of things and i think he does'nt want me to suspect anything when it comes to the phone we used to be alot but not alot if u know wat i mean but anyways now when i try to call him is phone is off or he presses end wich makes it go to voice mail and i call his home phone and i can hear him and another young girl in the backround i can tell that the girl is like 15 around his and my age but his room mate always answers and says he's not there. wat do you guys/grls think is he cheating on me or am i just being paranoed

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my next door neighbor and my boyfriend


Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 11:21 pm

ok so i have this wonderful boyfriend and he is wonderful and all the girls in school like him but i also like my neighbor who is super hot. he has a great personality and he always gives me rides on his motorcyce and me and him made out once and kissed a couplle times and i could tell he is in to me to. i kinda see my neighbor as more boyfriend material because my boyfriend was my best friend in seventh grade and he seems like more of a friend to me now. and so my neighbor gets more sexual with me and i like it the aggresiveness. i dont know what to do i fell i love them both!!!

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age


Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 11:07 pm

does age really matter when it comes to dating someone?

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my crush


Posted Tuesday April 11 2006, 11:05 pm

there's this boy that lives like two houses down from me and he's like sooooooooooo cute. he's 19 and i'm 15 and i really like him but i don't know if he likes me. he's always staring and smiling at me like he as something to say but never says it. should i go up to him and ask him does he like me or should i just wait and see what happens?

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