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he has such a thick head!!
my boyfriend of 8 months has such a thick head! i mean he wont do anything inless i grip at him.... he even says so his self...like my dad is a stricked parent i mean im his only girl so i can see his point but my dad likes to know when my boyfriend comes down because my boyfriend lives a hour away...well anyways my dad likes to know at least a week in advance when my boyfriend comes down to see me ...well he wont do it inless i yell at him...what do i do about it? just yell at him everytime i want something done?
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To be honest, and I know you've been going out a while, I dont think this guy is worth your time. If he truly loved you he wouldnt mind doing anything for you and he'd be desperate to see you, there would be no need whatsoever for you to beg him to do something. I was able to tell time was up in my relationship when my boyfriend started making excuses or couldnt be bothered. I think you need to have a heart to heart with him and make sure he still wants to be in this relationship. If he says yes, then tell him that he needs to show you tons more respect and care from now on or he is chucked!!!
If he says no or doesnt seem that bothered by this threat, get rid of him. No matter how much you love him, there are plenty of guys out there who would treat you so much better than this and be desperate to spend every waking moment with you, treating you like a princess. Don't put up with this any longer if he is not willing to put a lot more effort into making it work.
Good luck hunni, sorry this wasnt happy advice
Sapphire Lily xxx
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Yelling is not a good basis for a relationship. If talking doesn't work, then you need to either leave your boyfriend, get into couples counseling with him, or work something out with your father.
But don't yell. Nobody loves a yeller.
You might calmly refuse to see your boyfriend unless he's given enough notice, of course. Or give him your father's number, or email address, or IM (assuming he has those), and tell him to make SURE to contact your father. And then refuse to see him if he doesn't.
If you do that and stick to it, he'll either break up with you or shape up, I suppose.
Good luck.
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