starting to get to were i can't beleive him...on anything
Question Posted Wednesday April 12 2006, 3:25 am
....im with this guy and its great but there is one thing . when he tells me he is going to do things he does do them i mean i guess its just little things but it really bugs me. like when we are on the phone he tells me he has to feed his dog and he will be about 5 mins ...than he calls back around 3 hours later and says sorry.. or he says we are going to hang out today but than he says he cant and than says sorry. he tells me he is going to do things but never does and im getting tired of it..i guess its really the calling thing that bugs me the most but ...is this really anything to stress over or am i being alittle cranky?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? EarthMother answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 9:10 am: Dear I Can't Believe Him,
Listen, I'd be cranky too if somebody was treating me that way! It's important to be able to trust each other, especially a bf or gf. If your bf can't follow through with what he says he's going to do, then it's about time you talk with him. After all, it's bothering you and therefore it's already affecting your relationship. LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, and hopefully being honest with him will help!
If this doesn't help, you might want to ponder why you are willing to be with someone who doesn't respect you enough to keep his word. Keep it real; you deserve an honest relationship with somebody who'll be honest in return. The ball is in your court!
Take Care,
Earth Mother [ EarthMother's advice column | Ask EarthMother A Question ]
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