There is a young man I really like, who is also a good friend of mine. He likes this other female who is, really, the ideal girl. Even though she rejected him, he still wants her. I know I can't compete with someone like her, but still, how can I gain his attention (without being a whore, that is)?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? skippy_pebbles answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 11:22 pm: one thing to do is if hes ever upset about something, be there for him. doing that will let him know that you'll always be there for him. now onto the fun stuff! always smile!! and when he tells a joke, no matter how stupid it is, laugh! and also wearing makeup might get him to notice you more if you dont wear it all that much. and just drop subtle hints that your interested in him. ifs hes smart, he'll notice. good luck!
helpfulhintsviahannahx4 answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 8:14 pm: This is a fun, yet tricky situation.
You can try several situations.
Wear pink. One of my best guy friends' says he always notices girls in pink.
Smile. It's nice to show your teeth when he looks at you and it will make him feel good.
Laugh. It's pretty and attractive.
Invite him to go places with you. It's a good way to get to know him even more and find out things you like about him.
And lastly (most importantly) be yourself. Maybe he will stop liking her, and like you. It's worth a shot and he might back off her for you.
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