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i don't have this skill (pt. 2)
ok so yesterday i asked a question about what i should do to ask this girl out. anyway, today i got up the courage to ask her, and she just completely shunned me for the rest of the day. i kinda wanted to know what that meant, seeing as i'm a guy that really doesn't get it.
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girls have a very abnormal way dealing with some things. if she didnt answer you at all, maybe she just wants time to think about it because shunning doesnt always mean no. if she doesnt say yes, act cool and say "hey, that's fine, i just thought maybe it would be nice if we got together some time" because if you mope around for the rest of the week, she wont feel guilty (and you probably dont want her to go out with you out of pity).
sometimes when girls avoid guys who asked them out, they dont want you coming up to them again and putting them on the spot if they're not sure yet. i bet she was embarrassed that she made you feel bad when she didnt answer because shes a nice person. she'll come to you when she's ready to talk for real.
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Most girls if they are interested in a guy will say yes when he asks them out. Since she did this I don't think she is into you.
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It could mean one of two things:
1) She is not attracted to you whatsoever
OR
2) She's really excited that you asked her out. But also really shy.
I cant choose which one she was thinking, you'll have to find out yourself. Try to talk to her and be like "What do you think of me asking you out?". The hard part is done -- so this wont be as hard right? If she ends up not wanting to be with you, still try and show her that your worth it. Be sweet to her...just as a friend..dont make things awkward..and maybe you can try again later? When you both get to know eachother a little better? Hopefully I helped && good luck =)
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