im at a complete loss of not only words but feelings. i like this guy allot more then i have ever liked any one in my life he made me feel comfortble around him and he made me so happy. over the summer we hung out and he kinda led me on to think we were going to date but ended up dateing my friend i was hert broken. im still nto over it and it was months ago. after he knew how much he hurt me they broke up and our friend ship was basically destroyed. well as months went on he told some of his friends who were my friends tat he like me allot as a girl friend. he now has a girl friend who he says he is in love with he always smiles and waves at me in the hallway i have a boy friend but he doesnt make me feel like the other guy made me feel i dont feel comefortable in front of my boy friend. i cant just let this guy go who means so much to me i lay awake at night thinking about him. i just need help how to deal with this and if there is hope on anythig please help i will rate hi if good advice
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sherry answered Wednesday April 12 2006, 6:51 pm: There is hope on getting over guys, no matter how much you like him at first. It just takes time. I started liking this guy in May and he got over me in July, and I didnt stop liking him until January. That's 6 months! And I'm sure a lot of people are still not over their crushes and it has been a while too. He was just a special guy to you and its sad that he had to break your heart like that. I think you should just focus more on your boyfriend, it's not fair to him that you still like this other guy..but its not your fault. So just give it time and try to focus on your boyfriend more and eventually, you'll forget about this guy. The fact that he waves to you is not helping the situation at all -- try to avoid him completley! If you can. I know it's school, but take a different way to another class or something. Good luck and if you need more help, I'm always here =) [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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