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How should I turn him on?
Posted Monday February 18 2013, 10:48 pm
What should I do to turn my boyfriend on, and make him really horny?
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Flirting?
Posted Monday February 18 2013, 9:36 pm
What are the signs a guy is flirting with you? Cause this boy I'm just going to call him "Bob" calls me over and we talk a lot sometimes we even end up walking each other to class but he has been asked if he likes me and said that I was a little sister to him what are the signs what do I look for
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Advice
Posted Monday February 18 2013, 8:35 pm
I have been friends with this boy since 7th grade or 8th grade. I'm in 9th now. I've been in love before. So, I know what it feels like. This time, I think I am. I just dont wanna admit it. We have been close since day 1 (the day I started to like him). Our brothers are best friends (they are older). Which is how we met. We flirted, alot actually. I asked him out (I am a girl). I hate doing that, but thats the only way I could tell him I liked him. He rejected me. He said he did'nt wanna ruin our friendship. Which didnt make sense to me because he dated my best friend 3 times and they still are good friends. & now...we barely talk to each other. I ruined it. This isnt the 1st time I've asked a boy out before (3rd time). But I care about...
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My life. My story.
Posted Monday February 18 2013, 1:26 am
I'm not going to tell you everything about my life but what's going on now. I know I'm young (15) but I've been sad me whole life. I've always tried filling my sadness with a boyfriend. Even if I knew I wasn't happy but I've haven't dated anyone cause I just want to have my highschool love .I want a boyfriend who will like me for me & not for my looks. Guys always say your sexy blah blah blah. People have no respect for me. I want someone that will make me feel like nothing bad will ever happen when I'm with them but no. Im scared to be with someone at the same time cause I'm also every bad at having relationship. I grew up learning use your looks to get by life. I was once in love or so I though. When we first started dating it did...
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Computer = ignore your girlfriend???
Posted Monday February 18 2013, 12:21 am
Well I have this boyfriend who is the sweetest guy ever, he gave me flowers for valentines day, takes me out to dinner, comes to all of my performances, and treats me like a princess.:) We have been dating for 6 months now but recently within the last couple of months he has been giving me one word answers while we are texting and so i ask what he is doing and his response is always "computer". I am fine with him being on the computer but I really miss our old conversations we used to have and his long sweet texts:'( I told him about this and he is still the same sweet, loving guy i know when we are hanging out, but when we are texting, it's not the same. I know that texting should not determine how a guy feels about you but why d...
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Help...
Posted Sunday February 17 2013, 9:57 pm
25/f. The guy is my ex boyfriend, as of the end of January. We broke up after over a year of a wonderful relationship, essentially, because he's not emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship with me. I've just been through a lot (including serious lifelong health issues, and various types of abuse including emotional, physical, and sexual), and I think I feel/act quite a bit older than I am because of all that I've experienced.
Anyway, he panicked, after being disqualified from something very important to him, and seemed to regress, beginning to act like his high-school self, and point blank, I don't want to date someone who acts that young. But I feel so confused, because this irresponsible person is not the guy I love or t...
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Am I Ready To Start Over?
Posted Sunday February 17 2013, 9:17 pm
15/F Canada. I really like this boy! He's in my class, and I know he liked me too. We want to be together... but I'm not sure if I am ready yet. I just got over a break up, and it really hurt me. Advice anyone? Thank you!
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I want to have sex but he isn't ready.
Posted Sunday February 17 2013, 9:00 pm
Okay, so my past relationships involved a lot of sex. It became regular (especially my last two). We had trouble being together without contemplating how and where we can bang...
Now here's my issue: my current boyfriend apparently isn't big on sex with me (actually he probably just isn't ready or something like that which means I need to be patient and wait, instead of letting it bruise my ego..)
But you see, I'm so used to sex it became sort of an addiction. Especially if he and I are making out and he'd do something that turns me on; I basically react automatically (kiss him deeper, kiss his neck, etc) and it's like he avoids it. Tries to make a joke, or something to break the mood some how (i.e. I kissed him deeper, and h...
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I want a friend first
Posted Sunday February 17 2013, 1:48 pm
Is it weird that I really don't like going on dates? I don't like a guy to try really hard to make me feel special by holding the door, telling me I'm beautiful, etc. but most girls do. To me that's really cheesy and fake.
I'm an interesting and down to earth person and I've had feelings in the past for guys I see all the time, who are in my friend circle. I really want to form a natural friendship with a guy, and hang out with him with other friends first and then when we start to like each other we hang out one-on-one. I want to have the desire to hang out with someone because I really know him and like him as a person. In other words, I feel like it can't START romantically for me to feel "right" and "natura...
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I have a boyfriend but I think Im in love with my bestfriend
Posted Saturday February 16 2013, 8:54 pm
I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and a half now and I actually do love the kid, he's amazing and completely faithful and he loves me but I think Im falling for my best friend, the way he looks at me gives me butterflies and I cant help but blush whenever they mention his name, and I love talking to him and I feel like I melt when he looks me in the eyes and I notice the way he always stares at my lips when we're talking and then glances at my eyes every five seconds or so, I sometimes feel like I'm friend zoning him but he's never really actually told me he likes me like that and he likes some other girl or so he says. But, I have no idea what I should do, help ? (P.S this is the first time this has happened to me)
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theres this girl....
Posted Saturday February 16 2013, 6:10 pm
hi 13 f gay or bi yes im sure.....theres a girl i think about a lot.shes so nice and in my class.shes wonderful but very straight.i have a lot of dreams about her and us,what should i do shell never like me.i like girls and many people dont know just close friends ive been like this scince early childhood should i tell hervi like her
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Boyfriend being defensive. why?
Posted Saturday February 16 2013, 5:17 am
hi, we have been dating for 3 years and he's a single father to his 5 year old girl with his ex girlfriend. we love each other and we've been living together for more than a year. but whenever i mention his ex or daughter he gets really defensive and makes me feel like i'm an outsider. for example if i say that is expensive to give a 5 year old and he would go and blunt,''so what.'' or if i tell his daughter being brat and he wouldn't like it. maybe because he's in late 40's or i don't know. i mean why would someone make a girlfriend feel like and outsider and always defensive when his kid and ex r mentioned? he says he can't stand his ex but for the sake of his kid he needs to stay in contact with her. help guys. thanks
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boyfriend being protective over phone
Posted Saturday February 16 2013, 12:53 am
My boyfriend and I took a lot of pictures for Valentines day, which all happen to be on his phone cuz my phone sucks and his is a lot better. So we were on our way to his soccer game and he had twenty minutes to warm up. I asked him if I could send myself some of the pictures from his phone and he said okay. So I was able to send myself one picture. I was basically attaching the rest of them all in one text. He is sitting right next to me putting his cletes about to go and warm up. He stops me and tells me he needs his phone im thinking uhm, you are about to warm up, you don't need your phone. So he says, it's my phone. I didn't even send the one I was attaching and gave it back. I was mad. he made me feel curious like what is he hiding? Then he tells me im wrong for being mad. Am I?
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Places to make out/do stuff with my boyfriend
Posted Saturday February 16 2013, 12:32 am
I am a 17 year old girl and have been dating my 18 year old boyfriend for the last two years. We have gone fairly slow and it took us a while to go to 3rd base (but we have done that). One of the main reasons that it took so long is that we don't have places to hook up. Whenever we have like a hookup sesh it will be at his house because his parents don't check in on us. However, my parents are very strict and rarely let me go to his house and whenever my boyfriend comes to mine we are in like the family room and my mom ends up watching like half the movie with us. It has become very frustrating that we haven't been able to move forward sexually for the sole reason that we don't have a place to hook up, and both of us want to lose our virgin...
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How to speak Boy Language
Posted Friday February 15 2013, 4:45 pm
So...I'm fifteen (female), and I have had a crush on this guy for a while. A couple days ago, I finally found the balls to go up and ask him out. Kind of. It was more of a confession than a question. So here's what I said: "I just wanted to tell you that I totally wouldn't refuse if you asked me out. Or, you could always say yes when I ask you to go ice skating with me." And then he said "okay" and he smiled at me.
At first, I thought that was a yes, but the next day, he practically ignored me (I think it's because he was with his friends), and when he wasn't with his friends, he kept giving me these anxious/awkward looks (they practically screamed "come talk to me", but I can't be sure). ...
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I don't have a boyfriend and I am 20
Posted Friday February 15 2013, 5:01 am
I have spent 2 valentines day without someone, the last time I had a boyfriend was 2011, he jilted me and it really hurt, since then I haven't had a serious relationship and that's what I am looking for.. Since 2011,I have been with about 4 guys not basically a relationship but a fling or I just decide to say yes out of pity and then break up... I haven't found what I want, someone who would fill that space my very ex boyfriend left, someone who I would love and who would love me back... I don't club, or party, my 2 close friends think my life is boring, they have boyfriends and they always spend the week or vals day with them I just feel so left out, my roomates also have boyfriends, I'm very pretty, 5'5 and slim but I don't know why I can...
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Is my marriage worth fighting for?
Posted Thursday February 14 2013, 7:22 pm
Hi, so I'm a gay male. I've been married for only half a year. My husband and I had been together and deeply in love for a year before we got married. But he's changed a lot in the past couple months. (Ever since we said the I do) he temper has gotten awful, all we do is fight. He doesn't want to allow me to dress how I used to. Doesn't let me see friends. He won't let me go back to school or get a vehicle of my own. He talks to other guys online. Tells people how much he hates me. But to my face he says he loves me and cares about me. Our fights start about any little thing you can think of, and blow out of proportion and turn into huge fights. I've heard that the first 5 years are supposed to be the best but the first 5 months have been a...
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I don't want to be seen as a slag
Posted Thursday February 14 2013, 7:14 pm
How do I get rid of the slag reputation?!
I had a boyfriend for 2 years when I was 14-16 and we were sexually active. When we broke up I started to have sex with one guy and then his friend found out in my school and I had sex with some of them too over the past 7 months. I have slept with 6 guys in total and I am 17 which to me isn't that many but in school I am seen as the "school slag" I hate it and cry about it all the time and always tell myself not to do things at parties! But every time I go and have a drink or want to have fun and the boys are there they make me feel guilty cos I'm a push over and I end up regretting it the next day! I hate this reputation and hate everyone looking at me in school! How can I...
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Can't get over my girlfriends "threesome" before we were dating
Posted Thursday February 14 2013, 1:57 am
So about a month ago my girlfriend admitted to me she might have made a huge mistake but didn't really recollect it. I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now and to be honest I'm beginning to fall madly in love with her. I found out that 3 months prior to me dating her ( keep in mind I was talking to her at the time and hooking up with her but we were not dating) she drank way too much alcohol and completely blacked out., woke up the next day in her own piss and puke and the last thing she remembered was being at a party (we attend the same college) and my roommate and friend were hitting on her hard. The next day she texted my "friend" what happened? He replied u got way too drunk we walked you home and you fell asleep. I ...
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Breaking up: I want to take him out as a treat to make up for dumping him... but what happens after?
Posted Thursday February 14 2013, 12:28 am
I'm planning to break up with my boyfriend and I'm really nervous, in fact, sick to my stomach about it. We've been dating for almost two years and we're getting nowhere in this relationship.
I'm not sure what to do, though. I've gone through so many scenerios in my head. But I get stuck right up to the part of... what do we do afterwards? I invited him out so that way I can treat him to at least make up for breaking up for him, and hoping we can still be friends, but do I just take him home afterwards? What if he insists on coming over instead? What do we do after I do?
And does anyone have any tips on how to break up with someone? I've never broken up with someone before and I know it's going to hurt him no m...
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