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I don't have a boyfriend and I am 20
I have spent 2 valentines day without someone, the last time I had a boyfriend was 2011, he jilted me and it really hurt, since then I haven't had a serious relationship and that's what I am looking for.. Since 2011,I have been with about 4 guys not basically a relationship but a fling or I just decide to say yes out of pity and then break up... I haven't found what I want, someone who would fill that space my very ex boyfriend left, someone who I would love and who would love me back... I don't club, or party, my 2 close friends think my life is boring, they have boyfriends and they always spend the week or vals day with them I just feel so left out, my roomates also have boyfriends, I'm very pretty, 5'5 and slim but I don't know why I can't get someone within the age of 25 to date me... Please tell me what to do its been 2yrs
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This is not a problem you can just get an answer to. In order to correctly find the actual problem someone would have to actually talk to you and ask certain questions. I would like to chat more with you about this. If you are interested feel free to add me and message me on Facebook.
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I have a tried and true method for making new friends and meeting new people. One of the biggest problem with meeting people is having something to communicate or talk about. Sex appeal only gets you so far. One day you wake up and you have to actually have to talk to each other and find out you have nothing in common.
Rather than rely on sex appeal alone to find someone we need to find a common interest. A common ground on which to build a friendship first and a love interest second.
Sit down with a pen and paper and make a list of all the things you like to do. They would include things such as movies, bowling, skating (both types) skiing, Hiking, camping, cooking, fishing, photography. Anything that you get personal enjoyment from.
Then look for clubs or outings that have or are geared to these activities. Visit these cubs to see if you wish to join or take part in some of these activities. By joining these clubs or taking part in these activities you should meet some guy with similar interest which gives you a common point of interest in which to have a conversation an get to know one another. You may also meet other women who may know of some guy who you may want to meet.
Most of all this is far better than the booty call at some local bar where all the guys are looking for are to get you to go home with them or them with you.
Give my way a try I think you will not only find guys to date but Mr right may just be waiting in the wings.
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dont be desperate...this way you will never be happy..love will find a way..I am 24 and I dont have a boyfriend since the last few years..and I dont think it has anything to do with lifestyle or looks...its that finding a perfect match needs time..its a basic instinct of girls to love someone deeply and be loved back in return...but its not something like some commodity which can be obtained just by the click of a mouse..its a priceless thing...and thus needs the right place and the right time to spread its magic..meanwhile enjoy life as it comes your way...bf is not everthing...enjoy activities which you enjoy doing!!!
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There is nothing wrong with your lifestyle. I never partied. Or went to clubs but I ended up finding someone.
Sometimes what the best thing to do is to let someone find you. I met my husband through a mutual friend, I didn't really know him personally but we went to school together. I was not looking, It just happened. You are young and ai know it doesn't feel that way too you but you have all the time. I was 22 years old when I met my husband and I didn't. Actually settle down and get married until I was 26.
People can meet people almost anywhere. You have to put yourself out there. Volunteer, Join a club or a sport or sometimes there are single people right where you work. Get involved ;-)
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