Well I have this boyfriend who is the sweetest guy ever, he gave me flowers for valentines day, takes me out to dinner, comes to all of my performances, and treats me like a princess.:) We have been dating for 6 months now but recently within the last couple of months he has been giving me one word answers while we are texting and so i ask what he is doing and his response is always "computer". I am fine with him being on the computer but I really miss our old conversations we used to have and his long sweet texts:'( I told him about this and he is still the same sweet, loving guy i know when we are hanging out, but when we are texting, it's not the same. I know that texting should not determine how a guy feels about you but why did he always used to send long adorable texts and now not so much?
When you text constantly, you run out of things to say. Once you get past the first couple of months of a relationship, there's only so much "I wuv YOU more, snoogiewoogiebear" that you can say to each other. This means that long texting conversations are boring and kind of useless.
Is your conversation serious? Is it something other than "So... what are you doing?" Probably not. That's why your boyfriend is prioritizing the rest of his life over texting. Imagine if he did nothing but respond to your texts at great length... he'd get nothing done!
You say that your boyfriend is amazing and sweet. Leave it at that. My suggestion would be to put a hiatus on texting altogether... it would remind you what a catch you've got and keep your mind from overanalyzing his every reply. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
Jheel answered Monday February 18 2013, 3:18 am: dont emphasize so much on texting dear.... maybe he's having some monetary probs and he's not sharing about it..... [ Jheel's advice column | Ask Jheel A Question ]
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