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boyfriend being protective over phone
My boyfriend and I took a lot of pictures for Valentines day, which all happen to be on his phone cuz my phone sucks and his is a lot better. So we were on our way to his soccer game and he had twenty minutes to warm up. I asked him if I could send myself some of the pictures from his phone and he said okay. So I was able to send myself one picture. I was basically attaching the rest of them all in one text. He is sitting right next to me putting his cletes about to go and warm up. He stops me and tells me he needs his phone im thinking uhm, you are about to warm up, you don't need your phone. So he says, it's my phone. I didn't even send the one I was attaching and gave it back. I was mad. he made me feel curious like what is he hiding? Then he tells me im wrong for being mad. Am I?
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Whoa, you should deffinitely not do what the previous advice stated. If my boyfriend took my phone and locked himself in the bathroom to "test" me, I'd dump him.
Did you have any concerns about him being unfaithful before this? Also, if he really had something to hide - do you think he'd give you his phone in the first place? If you are really concerned, you should tell him that it made you feel uncomfortable and let him explain his side of the situation.
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I agree with Lexi. That is a huge sign of being unfaithful. Here's a test for him. Take his phone. Run into the bathroom and lock the door. If he freaks out or tries to get in. He's cheating. You don't even have to look in his phone. His reaction will say everything.
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Hmm.. Be careful.. That is a BIG sign of hiding things..You my dear are NOT wrong for being angry. How long have you two been dating? Have you even been suspicious of him cheating? Possibly sit him down at a dinner and talk about how YOU feel. Trust is KEY.
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I am telling you to follow your instincts..not to trust blindly..sometimes what we see dont appear to be the truth...so jumping to conclusions is not right...that does not mean that I am telling you wait until something bigger happens..I am telling you to wait so that you can get more chances to test his loyalty...chances are there he might pass those tests..You are telling that he might be cheating on you...but you are not sure..so start taking note of his words and actions... but view his every action keeping in mind all aspects which may be the truth..I mean that dont look his every action with suspicion... If any where he gets to know that your doubting his actions two things may happen 1. If he is loyal, he might get immensely hurt and break up and you will be left with repenting 2. if he's not he will become more careful so that he will try to cover up everything and you may never reach the truth..and all the way he will blame you only.. so wait while observing him..be careful..dont be mad..be tactful.
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You shouldn't be too mad. It's nice to give him the benefit of the doubt if you're not sure. Unless this is something that has been going on for a long time then it could be a problem.
Personally, I like having my phone with me all the time, even when I work out and don't even use it. He could be one of those people. It seems like you guys had a lot of fun on Valentine's Day and spent it together. Don't try to make a big deal out of nothing.
It's ok to get upset. It's understandable. But it's good to let it go as well. Ask him to send you all of the pics and enjoy your time together.
Hope this helps.
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