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I have a boyfriend but I think Im in love with my bestfriend
I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and a half now and I actually do love the kid, he's amazing and completely faithful and he loves me but I think Im falling for my best friend, the way he looks at me gives me butterflies and I cant help but blush whenever they mention his name, and I love talking to him and I feel like I melt when he looks me in the eyes and I notice the way he always stares at my lips when we're talking and then glances at my eyes every five seconds or so, I sometimes feel like I'm friend zoning him but he's never really actually told me he likes me like that and he likes some other girl or so he says. But, I have no idea what I should do, help ? (P.S this is the first time this has happened to me)
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You know, it could be that all these things that you notice are things that you think are happening, but might not be entirely true. I would guess that since you've been in your relationship for so long, there have been things that haven't felt "new" or "exciting" for a while because you already know the person and your relationship's "honeymoon period" has ended.
Also, since the guy you have a little crush on is a friend, I don't know that trying to get to another level with him would be a good idea because if it ends up not working out then you would have potentially lost a good friend.
I wouldn't act on it in any way and just ride things out. See about things in your current relationship. Is there anything wrong there? Are there things that you don't like? Do like? Are they things that you don't mind, or do you find them to be deal-breakers?
Don't jump to conclusions and easy fixes, they usually turn things into unwanted situations.
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Now let me get it straight...when your boyfriend proposed you, did you say yes because you loved him or because you wanted a boyfriend and he was there for you?? DO YOU actually LOVE HIM??? if you do love him dont think of fiddling around with any other person..dont even think romantically about him...he's your best friend only...it is temporary attraction...divert your mind..this best friend of yours hasn't even told anything to you..set your proirities first..have you ever thought of how and what you have felt if you were in your bf's position??
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I agree with the user below me, If you love your boyfriend tjen you need to do what's right by taking time apart from your friend. You're boyfriend is good too you, Then why exactly are you allowing yourself to drift? Good guys are
hard to find and you should not let them them go. It could be a mistake you will end up regretting. Stop spending so much time with this friend and draw the line. You need to give your man respect
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Normally I write a long response, but this is pretty straight forward and easy. If you love your boyfriend and he treats you right and is faithful, then it is your responsibility to give him the respect he deserves. You should not be spending time with another male that you have feelings for. You should not allow anything in your life that puts strain on your relationship. Good guys are hard to come by and it sounds like you have one. If you act on those feelings that. you should have avoided getting in the first place you will be hurting someone who didn't deserve it and once the deed is done you can't take it back. You risk loosing someone who treated you right. I suggest you put a lot of space between you and this friend very quickly.
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