Member Since: February 17, 2013
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Last Update: February 17, 2013
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I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and a half now and I actually do love the kid, he's amazing and completely faithful and he loves me but I think Im falling for my best friend, the way he looks at me gives me butterflies and I cant help but blush whenever they mention his name, and I love talking to him and I feel like I melt when he looks me in the eyes and I notice the way he always stares at my lips when we're talking and then glances at my eyes every five seconds or so, I sometimes feel like I'm friend zoning him but he's never really actually told me he likes me like that and he likes some other girl or so he says. But, I have no idea what I should do, help ? (P.S this is the first time this has happened to me) (link)
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You know, it could be that all these things that you notice are things that you think are happening, but might not be entirely true. I would guess that since you've been in your relationship for so long, there have been things that haven't felt "new" or "exciting" for a while because you already know the person and your relationship's "honeymoon period" has ended.
Also, since the guy you have a little crush on is a friend, I don't know that trying to get to another level with him would be a good idea because if it ends up not working out then you would have potentially lost a good friend.
I wouldn't act on it in any way and just ride things out. See about things in your current relationship. Is there anything wrong there? Are there things that you don't like? Do like? Are they things that you don't mind, or do you find them to be deal-breakers?
Don't jump to conclusions and easy fixes, they usually turn things into unwanted situations.
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