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How do you let go of someone you love?When its hard, but you know it is for the best?


Posted Sunday April 18 2010, 11:01 am

How do you let go of someone you love? Even though you know its for the best, and you know that they are not right for you, and you suffer by being with them, how can you let them go if you love them? If you cant be without them? If, for just a small amount out of the total, you are happiest with them? If so many promises were made by you that you wouldn't leave, that you're different. And most of all if you know that leaving them would mess them up worse than anything else could? I don't know what to do...

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the big secret


Posted Sunday April 18 2010, 10:43 am

For anyone that has had any experience with "The Secret" or Aka The Law of Attraction, what have been your experiences with it and what is your opinion of it? Do you guys think it works?

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Need a Reason to Live


Posted Sunday April 18 2010, 6:46 am

Every day I wake up, I have to think about a reason why not to commit suicide. I am married with children. I love my wife and my kids, but, the only reason I havent' commited suicide, is because I feel guilty about the financial burden it would cause. I have a spinal chord disease and every day is a struggle with unbearable pain and constant medication. I feel my wife is getting tired of me and my illness. My illness has caused me to lose my job and my home, I am bankrupt, I don't have a job or an income. What do I have to live for???? I just don't know what to do or what purpose there is to my life. I really wish God could just give me the strength to do it, so that I don't continue to suffer anymore. My relationship with my wife h...

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Why do I feel this bad?


Posted Sunday April 18 2010, 6:09 am

I'm 19 and I broke up with my boyfriend after 1 year of going out, and i haven't stopped crying. Thing is, i dont know why i feel like the worst person. Me graduating year 12 was the proudest moment of my life, because i dropped out the first time due to mental health issues, and when i went back the following year(2009) it took a lot for me to actually stick around, but i did it, despite all the hell i had been through during the year and before it...My boyfriend ruined my grad night by getting drunk with his sisters and house mate and making me look like a complete fool. It was also right after 2 of my closest friends passed away too so I was heartbroken that he'd do such things.

On Christmas day, which was our first chris...

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Mixed Signals from Ex


Posted Sunday April 18 2010, 2:04 am

I met my ex online and he lives a short distance away from me. However at the time we started dating he was in the USMC stationed in CA. He came home once in the 7 months we were dating and we went out had a great time. His visit was about 3 months into our relationship. Being alone eventually got to me and I slipped up on night and ashamed of myself i did not contact him for 5 days. When i did contact him i just told him i had met someone and thought we should go our seperate ways. All the affair i had at that time was sex. Me and the guy i had a affair with started dating shortly after. Missing my ex though of course i left him not long after our relationship started. I did not contact my ex however for several weeks after i left the guy ...

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Personal Statement - any ideas?


Posted Sunday April 18 2010, 12:49 am

I'm in a high school program at a community college, one of the required classes I have to take is a SAT/career preparation. One of the assignments I have to do is write about something that have changed my life that makes me a stronger/better person I am today. When thinking about it, I feel like I have nothing amazing that happened in my life. My professor says to write a personal statement that shows colleges that I'm a strong person and make them want me to go to their school.

My sister suggested an idea which was talk about how I came from a poor family, and what makes me stronger now is that I'm working alot harder in school, trying to get a good education, I started working at a young age, and that's how I ended up at...

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What can I say to my mom to get her to quit smoking?


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 11:01 pm

my mom smokes alot.
her best friend dyed 5 years ago from lung cancer. and I'm scared of my mom also getting it!
not only does my mom have a chance of it I do too because she smokes in the house.
what should I say to her to get her to understand that her smoking is affecting my health too?

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I am not happy with myself and fear of lossing my family because of it .


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 8:50 pm

I have a sadness in my heart and I don't know why I cant seem to feel more positive about myself. I wanna be a great mother to my children but fear I am not strong enough to endure all. I love them more than anything in the whole world but that just isn't enough I fear. I don't want to fail them as a mother, I want to be a better person for my partner and I feel lost because I am not happy with myself so how can I make someone else happy. I feel he does not want me anymore. I feel so judged and hate it. I am tired of being so anxious about everything I want peace of mind. Sometimes I want to just live in a bubble and never leave. Why do I feel this way? What is wrong with me? What are steps to improve myself for my family.I have no insura...

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Too much work?


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 8:04 pm

I'm going to college next year for mechanical engineering, which requires about 100-something credits to graduate.

However, I've been thinking about double-majoring in Psychology. I think this takes 60ish credits.

Is this POSSIBLE or MANAGEABLE? What is the workload usually like for each course? How much studying and stuff does each usually take?

I already have some AP credits (in AB calc and psych). And I'm fairly used to doing shitloads of work (I go to a good high school and currently take 8 fairly challenging classes). I know that high school is pretty different from college, I'm just saying I'm not a slacker and I'm used to nerdy competition for high grades.

Anyway, do you thi...

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Pubic Hair


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 7:49 pm

14/f
Everytime i shave my vagina, i get really itchy and irratated down there. I used a regular razor & shaving cream. Is this a common problem? & how can i shave/trim my pub hair without having all this discomfort? Or is there something I'm doing wrong? Any tips/answeres would help ! [:

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College: Majors vs Minors? Can you still get a job if you minor in something?


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 7:48 pm

What are the advantages of minoring in a subject?
What do you get out of it?
Can you actually land a job with only minoring in a subject?

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I Love Music, but I'm Not So Good At Writing Or Playing It


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 7:37 pm

Music is my passion. I love it more than anything. Unfortunately, I'm not the greatest singer. I play gutiar, but I'm not really anything special. I've always had my dream of being a guitarist in a band, but I don't really see that working out.
What are some possible jobs that I could have that would involve my love for music, bands, touring, and such? I love discovering new music. I've thought about being a band manager, but I'm just wondering what other opportunities are out there.

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Science Project: Rubber band or spring?


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 7:21 pm

Is there a really strong rubber band like item for sale some where. or is there a spring that last a really long time... my teacher wants to keep my science project ,but the spring keeps breaking. It could work with good aim and rubber band like object too. i would like any information you people could provide.

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Pregnancy test


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 7:16 pm



Okay I'm a little confused,


Say I had sex 7 days ago, I take a pregnancy test resulting from the 7 days ago I had sex..but I had sex AGAIN the day before I took the test would it relapse and effect the results from the first time I had unprotected sex?


Let me try to break this down so it's not confusing..


7 days ago I had unprotected sex with my partner

I took a test, However I also had unprotected sex again the day before I took the pregnancy test. Would the test come out negative or would the results get effected?

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Shape-Ups or Reebok Easy Tone?


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 6:45 pm

I heard that Sketcher's Shape-Ups are suppose to help you tone thighs, abs, and your butt. Do they really work? Has anyone had actual results?

I also heard Reebok Easy-Tone is suppose to tone the same muscles but I don't know to trust this or Shape-Ups instead.

Help please. Will Rate good.

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The Shake Weight: Does it work?


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 6:44 pm

I want to try the Shake Weight, the device used to help tone your arm muscles. Does it really work?

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Scoliosis/Spinal Surgery


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 6:38 pm

Hi :) I've had scoliosis since I was in 7th grade. I'm a junior in high school now. I was braced for a good 2 years and it ended up failing. My scoliosis is is about 37-40 degrees and my regular doctor was saying how I should get spinal surgery to correct it so I wouldn't have long-term disadvantages when I age. Of course that is something I do not want at all, disadvantages, that is.

I'm not exactly for the surgery, but I don't want to live my life in pain and difficulty. It's about a 4-8 hour procedure (if I remember correctly) and a 6 week recovery and typically very successful. My doctor is the man who corrected Gloria Estefan's back injury when she got into a bus crash, and I know he's very very good at his job. I'm jus...

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Posisitons


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 6:25 pm

What are all the different names/types of sexual positions out there? xD

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Hit Girl Costume from Kick Ass (the movie)


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 5:58 pm

Can anybody tell me where to get a Hit Girl costume?

If there isn't one that is already made can you help me make my own? Thank you very much for helping me to fulfill my new dream which is to go to graduation dressed as Hit Girl! Not to mention Halloween.

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Why is this happening to me? :(((


Posted Saturday April 17 2010, 5:42 pm

16/f
No matter how hard I try to find love it just keeps avoiding me.I see all the couples around me,happy,holding hands and kissing and I feel jealous,or just burst into tears.Whenever I like someone now,they just end up being jerks to me.I had a few relationships but that's something I don't wanna remember.I try my hardest to attract someone I could like being with but I fail every single time...ofc I try to be subtle and all but it's like I'm invisible.I'm good-looking and smart,but I feel like I'm the exact opposite by the way I've been treated.Why me? I just want to be happy in love for once.and it never happens.I just get treated like dirt every time.

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