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Mixed Signals from Ex
I met my ex online and he lives a short distance away from me. However at the time we started dating he was in the USMC stationed in CA. He came home once in the 7 months we were dating and we went out had a great time. His visit was about 3 months into our relationship. Being alone eventually got to me and I slipped up on night and ashamed of myself i did not contact him for 5 days. When i did contact him i just told him i had met someone and thought we should go our seperate ways. All the affair i had at that time was sex. Me and the guy i had a affair with started dating shortly after. Missing my ex though of course i left him not long after our relationship started. I did not contact my ex however for several weeks after i left the guy i had a affair with. when i did contact my ex he had told me he was home for good out of the USMC and i poured my heart out and was honest about everything. At one point he says that he could never trust me again (understandable) and then he asks me how he thought it would be if we got together again. I still get the feeling he still loves me. But i know i hurt him badly. Is their any advice someone could give me about proving that im as hurt as he is and i can be faithful? Which is hard because it is hard to get him to contact me back. I miss him so much.
21/female he is 23/m
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wow girl thats tough,but it seems that you have learned your lesson. if the boy is inlove with you he will eventually learn to forgive you and give you a second chance which you have to really appreciate and not throw it in the trash.in the other hand if he doesnt forgive you then he wasnt the one.it was never meant to be.i really recommend you to not date online cuz not always people seem who they are. you sound like a smart and beautiful gurl think about what you really want,is this the guy for you or is it just another illusion.hope this helps you!good luck:)
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Being a guy who has been in a very similar situation.
I did still care for the girl, but every time I looked at her I saw her with the other guy. I still wanted her but some images you can't get out of your head. I never could. If you really want to make it work with him, my advice would be to be open and honest, admit your faults, but never share details and if possible avoid bringing it up at all. To be honest most guys are very visual, and it may be awkward at first, but he has to have something to get that image out of his head and replace it. It sounds bad but it will probably work
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For the record darling, its best finding a date/partner the old fashion way. The internet is not the greatest place to meet people. [:
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