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cheating boyfriends
My friend's boyfriend is cheating on her. I've seen him hooking up with plenty of other girls before.
I've told him that he's hurting her, that he should man up and tell her about it, etc. but he refuses.
What do I do? Should I tell my friend? Do I have a right to meddle in her relationship like this, even though her boyfriend's being an unfaithful bastard?
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I was in the exact same situation, My friends boyfriend was fooling around. Personally, I wouldn't tell her unless you have solid proof. When I confronted my friend that her boyfriend was cheating on her not only did she not believe me but she got the impression that I was trying to break them two up and it soon lead to her not being able to trust me. If you want solid evidence, Get a photo of her boyfriend and the girls he's been with or better yet a voice recording. Something along those lines should be good enough evidence. I hope you don't have too take it this far but another way to tell her is to find out where her boyfriend is taking the chick and meet up at the same place with your friend.
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Hey there.
ugh im sorry to hear this your friend deserves better I hate guys like that.
If I were you I'd definately tell her I know it might feel like your medeling but think about it if it were you wouldnt you wanna know?
its gonna hurt her like hell but youl be doing the right thing by telling her what you know.
It will be ten times worse if she finds out by someone else or that you already knew.
Just let her know what youve seen and that youl be there for her..and that you dont wanna get involved in her relationship but you thought she ought to know..then take a step back and let her make her decision.
Hopefully she will dump his ass imediately & is not one of theese girls that gets blinded by love and sweet talked easily.
If she reacts badly or doesnt believe you which is unlikely but it does happen.. in that case just take a step back until she comes to her senses. :)
Don't worry your being a good friend and your friend will apreciate it be there for her she doenst need this jeerk.
good luck and hope this helped
much <3
Jess
16/f
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