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back in the past


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 6:22 pm

im single and im talking to my ex bf.he is in a relationship and we are talking like were together.I wanna be with him but i dont wanna go back that route, and he claims he loves his current gf.i need help!!!

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omost the same as a question on here but different...


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 6:05 pm

ok well i have the same problem as this other girl on here that ....when she tried to brake up with her boyfriend he started to cry and make her feel bad so she stayed with him...well, i have the same problem...but i want to be his friend and he dont want to be my friend if we brake up...and that hurts me :( how can i get him to be ...my friend?

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Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 6:04 pm

I recently broke up with my boyfriend because i got the sense that he was using me.I dont know what i did but he acts like we never dated and he talks about how bad a gf i was.personaly i dont think i did nothing wrong.YOu know now that i remeber, in the beinging he was very nice and his sister told me that he talked about me all the time, but as the weeks went on he started to careless he started not to call me and when i was with him he would be different he really confused me.then one night i had a dream about one of my guy friends and he really started to be a bad bf.I told him i didnt like anybody else, but he continued to be mad at me.it suxed then i thought "2 can play this game"and i started being mean and not calling him ...

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My Best Guy Friend :|


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 5:00 pm

Alright so me and my best guy friend, we are close. Close as in he tells me mostly everything. He's such a cool guy and I love him to death. [I'm not sure if I have feelings for him, I'm sure I don't] Well, people at school always tell me that he likes me, but I usually don't believe it. But lately he has been acting strange around me. Yesterday night we had a party thing, and I asked him if he wanted to dance[It wasn't even a slow song, and I wasn't trying to make a move or anything.] And he goes, and I quote, "No. I mean do you know how akward that would be later? I mean we are in the same math class." Yes we are in the same math class, and that seems to be the number one problem. If I ever ask him something in a friendly way [L...

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Convincing your partner your over your ex...


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 4:48 pm

Here goes...

About three monthes ago I dated this guy called Andi, sorta started to fall for him, but he used me for money and was too emotionally immature, and we broke up. My heart wasnt broken but very bruised.

I did some crazy things on the rebound, dont wanna go into it all,but you all understand what its like I am sure.

But then met this guy called Gerard, I was still hurting over Andi, but instantly liked him, after a week we became partners, we are just so well matched.

He told me recently he loved me, and I had to go back into my past and tell him that I was really hurting after Andi,but that he was the 1 for me and no1 else came close. I told him intially it was a sorta ...

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not a fan of relationships!


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 2:36 pm

I hate serious relationships/having a boyfriend. I'm just not a big fan of the whole 'love' thing at this point in my life. I like flirting & I like having fun. There's this one guy who's great and I wouldn't mind having fun with him (in a clean way). He wants a relationship with me. How do I go about telling him that I really do like him but for now, I don't want him to expect me to change soon & want him to be my boyfriend.

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Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 1:20 pm

How do I know if I really really like this guy.
I REALLY NEED TO KNOW IT'S AN EMERGENCY.

I don't really know him though, but I feel like my heart sinks eveytime I see him. I feel stupid

(I rate)

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NOT FAIR


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 1:07 pm

Last monday my ex and I broke up and now he's telling everyone what we did in our relationship.He calms he " hit it and quit it" which means he was just with me for sex. So it all back fires on me.But instead of just sitting here and letting him say that.I started to tell people that I "hit it and quit it". Does that make me a slut or does it make me look stupid?i really dont have a choice.

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used 2 much :<


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 11:13 am

okay. im 16/f

MR.X

this guy, [this started back in october] MR.X [22at the time, 23/m now + he has a 3year old daughter] stayed at his house whilst i was dating my ex bf and slept with MR.X once. then the next day broke up with my ex bf cos my ex was a virgin and i didnt feel i was the right person. then 2 months later i stayed there again and we slept with MR.X again. i developed feelings for MR.X and now he's got a girlfriend.

MR.Y

so this guy MR.Y [18 at the time, 19/m yrs old now] met him seemed like a nice guy. alredy knew one of his mates. he came over mine 2 nights later whilst parents were out. i slept with him. then i started to develop feelings for him only to find out he...

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I don't want to be in this relationship anymore


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 4:01 am

My boyfriend and I have been together for 14 months, friends for 4 years, and I recently tried to end the relationship. I don't see our futures working together, he has no personal ambition, and numerous other things. I thought the break up was going relatively well considering the circumstances, but then he lost it and started crying. That was the last thing I expected as he is NOT the kind of person to EVER cry. I felt so terrible for inflicting this kind of grief on someone I care so much about that I agreed to stay in the relationship. (He isn't/wasn't trying to cry in orderfor me to stay)
Now I don't know what to do but I need to get out of this. He's gone back to his normal self and has seemingly forgotten about our whole delie...

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prom....14/f


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 3:09 am

im 14/f and i was asked to prom by my boyfriend of a few months (2-3). he goes to a different school and they only have a junior prom so what im asking is do you people think 14 is too young for prom. i have to say im a mature 14 and my bf thinks so and thats why he likes me besides numerous other reasons.we wouldnt have sex or go to parties afterward so is just prom too young for a 14year old????? my parents know and are ok with me going but i still dont know..
thanx a bunch

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what do i do?


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 12:59 am

my friends were bugging the guy i like about this thing i have to go to that i want to go w/ him to he said if i want to go i had to ask myself so i did.he said he didnt know about may 12th which i already knew. im worried that hes saying that b/c he doesnt want to go but doesnt want to hurt my feelings im really scared its got me sooo stressed and frustrated that i dreamt about it all last night and im exausted. ill find out soon enough what he meant but its bugging me soooo much and i just want an answer i really like him but dont want him to take pitty on me b/c i hate that what do i say to him? i need to know by thursday if hes going b/c tickets go on sale soon. is he just trying to not hurt my feelings? whats his deal annd what do i sa...

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guys answer this


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 12:32 am

what do you look for in a girl, physically && personality wise? what turns you on about them or makes you want to take to them more? anything helps. Thanks. ill rate.

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ok well .. first love


Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 12:12 am

do you think its weird. if you stay with your first boyfriend forever
b.c i think thats gonna happen to me
i dont mind. but is it likey to happen

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Boy, Cheater, Like, Confused, Moving?


Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 11:47 pm

Ugh Im so confused....
OK I went out with this guy for 3 weeks and he ended up cheating on me but he told me that he cheated and apoligized and evrything but so i dont know if i should like him or not and also im leaving for a whole year in like 2 months so i was thinking maybe i just shouldnt like anyone and let everyone i start meeting just be my friend since theres no time to get close and let leave... so i havetold my ex ^^ that Im leaving cause were starting to workthings out... so I was wonderring do I think I should tell him and just be I dont want to like you, or date you cause I have my reasons and its just not worth it... How do u say that nicely well sorry this is so so long??

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who pays


Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 11:45 pm

if a girl asks a guy to prom, does she pay for both tickets? does the boy traditionally pay, or does each person pay for their own?

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its all because of me :(


Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 9:55 pm

ok...me and my x-boyfriend's relationship was going great...but 3 months into it he started to slip into depression...i ask people what i should do and somone gave me the brilent idea to complament him and try to get him to feel good about his self...so i did just that...than...2 weeks later after i was complamenting him he dumped me and went out with my best friend!! and now he thanks me everyday for helping him "meet the love of his life" ...he said he would have never walked up to my best friend if he didnt have confedice... and it makes me feel like he was just using me!!.. should i be upset? or am i over reacting?...

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Other Gurls Butts?! NOT AH!


Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 9:42 pm

Well my Boyfriend I Have Been Going Out For 6th Months now. ABout 3 Weeks Ago I Wasn't At School On Monday And We Had A Pep Rally... You Know With All The Cheerleaders and Ya! Well ME And My BF Were Walking ANd He Said That He Sat In The Back And He Said That The Cheerleaders Had Nice Butts! I WAS LIKE OMG! I Dont Think You Should Be Telling Me This! But What Do You Think?! I Need Some Opions! I Will Rate Good! Thanks!
[&hearts;] Staci

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Travis


Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 7:28 pm

hi i like this kid named travis ....and i don't know if he likes me...what do i do? my heart breaks easily...and when someone says fer say i don't like you like that...i feel like i could die...anyway when ever i call him he's like no your not going to let me go..(phone)wise...so what do you think...oh and like i will say ooops..my bad...and he will laugh and repeat it in a funny way...and like i say dude and so does he he like copies...makes me laugh...what does this mean ...??do you think he likes me...
thanks i rate high..samantha

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my friends man..


Posted Saturday April 22 2006, 4:51 pm

well my friend broke up wit her boyfriend for Ex. its been weeks and the ex is finally gettin over her, well now i start to have feelings for him..hes now talkin to a gurl who likes him (but he doesnt like her back) and me and him are talkin..at a party we were drunk and all over each other...my friend broke up wit her boyfriend and the same day went out with her X (the guy i like) she doesnt seem like shes into him at all, only want him cuz hes moving on from her..selfish ( i think..)it seems like i coulda had a chance.. should i even bother? or back off cuz hes her "property" now..

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