omost the same as a question on here but different...
Question Posted Sunday April 23 2006, 6:05 pm
ok well i have the same problem as this other girl on here that ....when she tried to brake up with her boyfriend he started to cry and make her feel bad so she stayed with him...well, i have the same problem...but i want to be his friend and he dont want to be my friend if we brake up...and that hurts me :( how can i get him to be ...my friend?
Additional info, added Sunday April 23 2006, 6:24 pm: sorry it is so confussing...does it even make sence? . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MsAnswers answered Sunday April 23 2006, 8:35 pm: yes it makes plenty of sense and well as for the how do i make him want to be my friend...just talk to him more and more about it before you break up with him and maybe hell change his mind about wanting to be your friend in the end or at least by the time youve had it up to here with him lol not only that..after you two break up, you could hang out with his friends and just be around him alot so hes obligated to want to be with you...this way theres no avoiding you and he wont feel as akward doing it...if you dont understand what im saying then i guess you could im me on aim....xoxoyayaxox
loves2shop86 answered Sunday April 23 2006, 6:57 pm: hey, well i answered her question, but here is the thing... when i broke up with my bf i wanted to be friends but he said no way! so we stopped talking, and after about 3 months we started talking again and are now good friends. there is no way you can be friends with him right away... it just won't work, and you guys will keep getting back together (and you don't want that)! plus he will be too hurt to be your friend. it takes at least 2 months of not talking to or seeing someone to get over them... so after the break up, give him some time, and once he is over things, then try to persue a friendship! any other way, it just won't work! :) good luck! [ loves2shop86's advice column | Ask loves2shop86 A Question ]
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