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I recently broke up with my boyfriend because i got the sense that he was using me.I dont know what i did but he acts like we never dated and he talks about how bad a gf i was.personaly i dont think i did nothing wrong.YOu know now that i remeber, in the beinging he was very nice and his sister told me that he talked about me all the time, but as the weeks went on he started to careless he started not to call me and when i was with him he would be different he really confused me.then one night i had a dream about one of my guy friends and he really started to be a bad bf.I told him i didnt like anybody else, but he continued to be mad at me.it suxed then i thought "2 can play this game"and i started being mean and not calling him at all.I did that to see if he really cared but he didnt.So thats y i dumped him.But now i miss him and i realy hate to admit it.I cant stop thinking about him. This is really bad because i take antidepressants and being in this situation really doesnt mix well...i need help! thankz
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I know it probably really hurts to lose someone you really had feelings for, but you just have to remind yourself that it has to be this way because you can't let a guy treat you the way this previous guy did.
You don't have to go through the relationship and try finding your mistakes and how maybe you could have been better. The point is that he could have acted like a boyfriend and he didn't. And, just because he didn't treat you like one, it doesn't mean that it isn't ok to miss him. You both started out great you said, he was nice and he talked about you to his family. It's not bad at all to miss that time when you were both first together.
Being depressed already and having to go through something else thats depressing can be really hard. To cope with all of this, you should always try sticking around your friends and family and keep your alone time limited. It's ok to cry sometimes, but try not making it a habit. You'll feel better to be around people who care about you. Don't be afraid to talk to someone about this too. Letting everything out works too.
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Ask yourself this....do you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to be with you? I don't think so. You need to move on.
It's only natural that you would think about him. You probably miss being in a relationship more than you miss him. Sounds to me like he doesn't deserve you.
You need to find someone who likes you, and wants to be with you...that will happen..just give it time.
I think you need to cut all contact with him...especially considering that you both are being mean to each other...thats not good for any persons mental health. You need to do what's best for you.
Good luck, and take care.
Brenda
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