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Boy, Cheater, Like, Confused, Moving?
Ugh Im so confused....
OK I went out with this guy for 3 weeks and he ended up cheating on me but he told me that he cheated and apoligized and evrything but so i dont know if i should like him or not and also im leaving for a whole year in like 2 months so i was thinking maybe i just shouldnt like anyone and let everyone i start meeting just be my friend since theres no time to get close and let leave... so i havetold my ex ^^ that Im leaving cause were starting to workthings out... so I was wonderring do I think I should tell him and just be I dont want to like you, or date you cause I have my reasons and its just not worth it... How do u say that nicely well sorry this is so so long??
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Hi there
Well first of all I'm sure you've heard the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" that's because it's true.
Now, there are circumstances where the cycle can be broken, the parties get councelling and can be helped to not cheat again.
You moving away, gives you the perfect opportunity to get out of this relationship without going into great detail. Just tell him you'd rather not try a long distance relationship (we all know those rarely work). That to me is the perfect reason.
If you guys are meant to be together, then it will happen down the road. Remember to do what's right for you, put yourself and your feelings first. Good luck.
Brenda
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I think you just tell him that since you are going to be gone for a year, you should see other people. When you come back you can see if you are still interested. :)
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