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Other Gurls Butts?! NOT AH!
Well my Boyfriend I Have Been Going Out For 6th Months now. ABout 3 Weeks Ago I Wasn't At School On Monday And We Had A Pep Rally... You Know With All The Cheerleaders and Ya! Well ME And My BF Were Walking ANd He Said That He Sat In The Back And He Said That The Cheerleaders Had Nice Butts! I WAS LIKE OMG! I Dont Think You Should Be Telling Me This! But What Do You Think?! I Need Some Opions! I Will Rate Good! Thanks!
[♥] Staci
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He's just a guy. You gotta know that you see a guy sometime and you're like, "Damn! That boy is fine!" For your boyfriend to tell you about this is kinda rude and thoughtless.. But he's just a guy. You've been going out for 6 months! If he thought those cheerleaders' butts were more important than you, you two wouldn't been together anymore. So as long as he compliments you as well as these cheerleaders, it's all fine. He wants you, not the cheerleaders! No worries.
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just chill. i mean, as long as hes not cheating on you, i wouldnt worry. im sure you look at guys and think that they are good looking. yeah, it was rude of him to say that, but i wouldnt be too worried. just tell him that you dont appreciate it.
peace<3
*jaimee*
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Tell him that you dont care if he looks at other girls butts [inless you do]] but you dont wnat him doing it infront of you and/or telling you about it becuas eit relay bothers you. its that simple if he acts imature about the situation.. well its time to move on hun!
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Personally, I wouldn't think it was such a big deal. People have butts, and some are nicer than others. And it's perfectly okay for anyone to look at other people's butts. If it happened to me, I would have said, "I guess, if you're into girls with flat, bony butts." Unless they really did have nice butts, in which case I would wink and say, "Yeah they do." That's just me though. If you are really upset about it, you should probably have a talk with your boyfriend.
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its normal for a guy to do this i should know. like my bestfriend liked this girl but now he doesnt and has another girlfriend but he still likes her butt we are basiclly programed to do this we are visually stimulated
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I wouldn't be worried... he maybe thought it but it's natural, it doesn't mean he thinks they are hot or likes them or anything. It's good that you have a good open realtionship and he can trust you and he's comfortable to say these things to you!
[Edit:] Then maybe you should tell him that...
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hey, its not too serious. hes jsut being a guy. if you want to comment then say something like "hows my butt" hehe lol. if not jsut let it be. cait♥
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I dont think he was being serious my boyfriend does the same thing though he will be like shes hot and all that...but if hes with you that means he see's more in you then in any other girl
hope it helped ♥
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tell him!
say something like, "what about MINE?!"
lol.
make it funny and stuff... don't take it too hard cos those were prolly just comments. :) some boys are THAT INSENSITIVE ok!
haha.
maybe next time when you hang out with him, you see some hunk and you go, "ooo. nice butt."
see what he says. lol.
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all i can say is guys will be guys, they think of it the same as when girls say oh this guy is hott type of thing, dont worry too much, hes just a normal teenage guy who think swith his penis! lol just tell him not to check other girls out, and especially not tell you, ask him if he would like you to say hey that guys is super hott, i bet he has really nice muscles or something! guys just dont think about it as a big deal, he still likes you, you still go out, and he told you to your face, if he hadnt told you to your face that he was checking other girls out that would mean he was thinking of it as cheating or doing something wrong but because he told you that shows he was being honest, and didnt think of it as a bad thing. he liukes you, dont worry, and plus cheerleaders do have short skirts, what do you expect from a guy? lol ttyl good luck!
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did you let him know it bothered you? if not mabye you should. he could have just been saying hat as a joke. personally, it wouldnt bother me that much but hey, everyone is different. if you feel hurt thogh, deff. tell him!!
love<33
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