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back in the past
im single and im talking to my ex bf.he is in a relationship and we are talking like were together.I wanna be with him but i dont wanna go back that route, and he claims he loves his current gf.i need help!!!
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This has happened to me so many times! Unlike other advice givers who say 'GIVE IT UP WOMAN' I say, just follow your heart. You could wait thats always optional but remember it may be a long time before he breaks up with her. If he loves her its O.K. But if you love him inside and you know he loves you to thats what matters most. Some time, he'll come to his senses and if not there might me some new crush waiting just around your corner!
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If he loved his girlfriend then he wouldn't be talking to you like you guys are a couple.
Why would you want to be with someone who is borderline cheating on his girlfriend....he'll probably cheat on you too? You said yourself you don't want to go down that route again...so don't.
Find someone who is single and faithful.
Take care.
Brenda
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I'm not trying to sound rude or anything but you need to leave this alone. Don't try to make him break up with his girlfriend because it could lead to major problems between you guys.
Also, don't talk to him like your dating. Talk to him like your friends, just friends. If he starts talking this way tell him no that you want to remain friends only and if it keeps happening don't talk to him at all.
If he becomes single again take your chance. But as long as he's in a relationship. Leave it alone.
-GD
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hey! there's only one thing to do... STOP talking to him right away! you will never get over him if you keep talking to him like this... not to mention if he has a gf, you can get hurt. think of it this way... he is talking to you, and has a gf. if he dumps her, he has a girl (you) and if he stays with her he still has a girl. you on the other hand... unless he breaks up with her, you lose! plus, you guys broke up for a reason... you don't want to be together! so you are right in saying that you don't want to go that route! just stop talking to him, move on, and find someone new. it will make life muuchh easier, trust me! :) good luck!
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that's good. if you can talk that comfortably to each other, it means he's gotten over almost, if not all, of the pain. honestly, don't worry about him trying to start up the relationship unless he actually DOES ask you to retry your relationship. there's no point in worrying about things that haven't happened and it seems that this would be a good thing for you; talking this comfortably shows that he doesn't mind being close to you. but if he does want to get back together and you still feel you don't, just calmly tell him that. looks like you've both taken this pretty well, so that's good. well, have fun!
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