I started at a highschool with no friends going with me. I have some great new friends, but sometimes i feel like they dont really like me as much as other times. I try to to stuff with them, and sometimes they will say that they're busy, and other times i'm not invieted to do stuff with them that i know is a group thing not just 2 people. What should i do to see whether they really like me and how should i try to be more included. ps i am a 14 year old girl
orphans answered Sunday April 23 2006, 7:27 pm: Try and invite them to do things seperately sometimes, with just you and one other person each time so that you build a strong bond with each of your friens so that they will get closer to you and they will invite you along. Try waiting for them after class and calling them just to say hi to let thm know that you care about them. As for seeing whether they really like you just see if they will wait for you after class and so on. Tell them how you're feeling. They may not even notic what they're doing.. or in this caase not doing. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
LondonScene answered Sunday April 23 2006, 6:50 pm: When started my highschool- i just moved into town. I had no friends and so i made friends with 5 girls. Some days they acted like they were my friends and stuff and other days they were just ignoring me and etc. But if you dont like being with them just go with other girls. Just talk to them at the beginning of school and after school. And maybe even at lunch time- Thats what i did and now i'm close friends with them. And i'm happy. Try it. :) [ LondonScene's advice column | Ask LondonScene A Question ]
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