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what do i do?
my friends were bugging the guy i like about this thing i have to go to that i want to go w/ him to he said if i want to go i had to ask myself so i did.he said he didnt know about may 12th which i already knew. im worried that hes saying that b/c he doesnt want to go but doesnt want to hurt my feelings im really scared its got me sooo stressed and frustrated that i dreamt about it all last night and im exausted. ill find out soon enough what he meant but its bugging me soooo much and i just want an answer i really like him but dont want him to take pitty on me b/c i hate that what do i say to him? i need to know by thursday if hes going b/c tickets go on sale soon. is he just trying to not hurt my feelings? whats his deal annd what do i say? sorry this is sooo long i just really need some help im so confused im ready to just break down. please help! thanks!!
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i think you should go strait up to him and ask him to his face wether or not he would like to go with you.. it takes a lot of guts and confidence but its the easiest way to find out... i think if you ask him he will think more of you and chances are that he will say yes!!
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Probably not the answer you wanted to hear, but you need to sit him down and tell him everything you just wrote.
If you don't want him to go out with you because he feels bad for you or doesn't want to hurt your feelings - let him know! Yes its true that he might be for those reasons and then call it off, but would you rather go into it and then find out later it was out of pity?
So first let him know how you feel about this whole situation, and ask him if he's doing it for the reasons you listed. Don't stress yourself over it either. Try to relax and be confident in yourself. And if he doesn't really want to go with you, that does not make you a bad person. Hope that helped and good luck.
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