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he loves me , i loved him not; i love him, he loves me maybe
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 10:16 pm
15/f
hi,
ok here's the deal. there waz this boy. he told me he loved me. i didn't belive him.we became friends. he got a girlfriend who's also my friend. now i think i love him but can't have him. ( i don't think i envy them, feels like love to me.) I can't date him ever because he's dated my friend. i think he still likes me because he acts like it. What should i do.
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him again
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 9:19 pm
Ok I have asked a few questions about this guy before, mark (not real name)and we went out in 6th grade even though he really didnt like my and was just pressured by his firends. He broke it off with me and I struggled getting over him for 2ish years, then this year thinking I was over him I started likeing him again. Anyway he is going to the formal (year end 8th grade dance) with his good firend who is in love with him. The thing his he dosen't like her that way. He flirts with me all the time, and my firends think that he likes me. He has a nick name for me and i just don't know what to think, and I REALLY DON'T want to see him dancing with HER because she loves him and might suduce him. ugh what should I do?
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WHAT SHOULD I DO? MY BF IS GAY I THINK!!
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 8:28 pm
I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ I WILL GIVE 5'S TO ANYONE WHO TRIES!
okay so im 15/f. ive had a bf now for a year and like we've done a lot of stuff if you know what i mean but not all the way. its getting really serious, and he is 16 and a grade older than me. the other day i walked in on his room and like there was this other guy there so i started to make out with him because he was hot, but then my bf walked in but we stopped so he didnt see us making out but so then i left to touch up my make up and when i heard a bunch of like noises from his room and then when i came back they were both in his bed in different clothes than before and they were like really close. like really. so it was kinda like weird. but later that d...
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scared to swim with my b/f (13/f)
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 7:56 pm
hey... well my boyfriend jordan and i have been going out for a month now. but my problem is that he invited me to go to the community pool with his family tomorrow. but, i don`t want to go. i am veerrryyy self-concious when my stomach is showing, because i`m quite chubby for my age. i don`t want to lie to him, but i also don`t want to be in a bathing suit around other people. so, i`m scared to go because i`m afraid he`ll be embarassed to be seen with me. what should i do??
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Im in love with a guy who is being a jerk
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 5:37 pm
I met this guy over the internet and He talked to me and he said he liked me and wanted to see me so I decided to meet him and since I never had a boy friend be for this was somthing I would be excited about.We met up and the first thing I noticed was his eyes because he had beautiful eyes and that day we talked and just hanged out for a little while and then it was time to go and we kissed.After that day things started to change. When I would come on to my screen name he wouldnt I.M. me but instead I would I.M. him but we still both talked and this made me like him more. A few months later we decided to meet up again this is in January and it was really cold that day. It was on a Thursday. I went to the place we were goning to meet up and ...
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How do I respond to my girlfriend?
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 4:37 pm
I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months, I honestly do love her. Whenever I tell her I love you she says I know like it's not a big deal or something, now whenver I tell her I love you she says I think you love me for the wrong reason, it hurts me when she says things like that, not once has she told me she loves me back. Am I just wasting my time? What should i do to respond to her when she tells me I love her for the wrong reason?
Thanks
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my friend
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 4:28 pm
16/f I think that I have a crush on my best friend. I've been really good friends with him for about 5 years now, but a couple of weeks ago we went to prom together and a little lightbulb went off in my head. Now I can't stop thinking about him, dreaming about him, wishing that he were more than just my best friend. He's going off to college soon, but I really really want something to happen before he leaves. Any ideas on how to get my best friend to like me back? I don't think that he has any idea that my feelings for him have changed, and I'm afraid that I'd freak him out if I just told him the strait truth.
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how do i tell him that.........
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 11:49 am
14/f...ive been going out with my boyfriend for about three weeks and his birthday is on the last day of school. One of my friends is throwing an end of school party on the last day of school (his bday). I can't bring him to the party because ALL my friends don't like him at all; they won't let me bring him basically. We've already talked about his birthday but I haven't had the courage to tell him that I would rather go to my friends party but I don't know how to tell him. What should I do?
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some things to say
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 10:23 am
i've been going out with guy for a long time. too long actually. let me tell you, he's a good guy but i think its time we break up. im planning on calling him this weekend to deal the news and i cant think of what im really going to say. like i dont want to be harsh. i want him to know that i will miss him and i want to be friends. but i cant just say that because i want it to be more passionate. and im not very smart when it coems to things like that.
help please!
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My boyfriend is a Marine
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 4:32 am
My boyfriend just got back from Iraq. I missed him and with him being gone for 7 months was very hard for me. He is about to leave again in January to ship across the world. Which he will be gone for 6-8 months. We are both into each other a lot. When we started dating I knew it would be like this but now that I am see first hand what its like its like I dont get to see him that much. He still has about 2 more years in the Marine Corp and he could go back to Iraq and he was telling me the other day that he was thinking about relisting again. I love him and want to be with him. But what if he asks me to marry him cause I kn ow the question is about to be asked.
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sex
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 4:00 am
me and my boyfriend decided to make love to show our feelings for each other. He is ABOVE average and I am a small person. We couldnt get his penis in my vagina because it hurt and it was to big. By the time we got it ALMOST in his penis would go limp because the condom was to tight on his penis. He uses extra large condoms. How can we get his penis in and have sex with a sondom on if he cant wear them cause they are to tight and make his penis limp? I am 18 female and he is 21 male
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Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 2:49 am
Hi. If it helps, I'm 15/f. Ok, I'm not going to beat around the bush, I think I might be gay or bi. Lately, I have found myself wanting to be with a girl more than with a guy. Today, I was at the waterpark with a friend, and I checked out almost every pretty girl I saw. Now, honestly, I don't know if it is because I might be gay, or because I find myself wanting to be a lot like them. I'm not the prettiest girl ever, and I'm not celebrity skinny. I do have some meat on my bones, but I'm not huge. Also, there is this girl at my school who just graduated. We were friends, and she was also gay. We played softball together for 2 years. I found myself wanting to be with her more and more everyday. I have had this 'crush' on her for as long as we...
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Liking
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 2:21 am
If the guy you like, asked you if you liked him, what would you say? Should you tell him the truth and take the risk, or just tell him you don't like him and keep it all inside for him to find out?
Thanks.
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idk wat to dooooooooooooo
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 1:55 am
OK so like my boyfriend is like absolutley in love with me but i am starting to lose intrest in him. The sad thing is that people are like you guys are the cutest couple i've ever seen. I reall miss being single, and i don't have a good reason to break up with him. i still want to be friends and stuff but i don't want him to hate me!!! He is also very clingy and its annoying, I'm 14 and so is he sp yeah i REALLLY need advice right now and i'll rate high!
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He loves me when hes drunk.
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 1:03 am
Hey im a girl. Im 15 years old. I really like this guy who is a year older then me. We do not go to the same school. So we met on myspace but we live close to each other and next year im going to be going to the same school he is. We met and talked and we also talked alot on aim he was giving me all hints he likes me: calling me his favorite and telling me how amazing i am. Then couple days after we hang out on the weekend it was me him two of my girlfriends and his friend. He was flirting with me and i was flirting with him and i was pretty much positive he liked me. Then we went over to his friends house and everyone else saw we liked each other. They asked me if i liked him and i said yea then they asked him if he liked me and he said he...
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it wasn't fun but turned out wierd
Posted Saturday June 3 2006, 12:26 am
hey, okay this maybe confusing but i try to keep it short....
there is this girl i went out with and we did a lot of stuff, and we broke up actually took a break but after a month we still not back together, iknow i have to get bac ktogether becasue we both like eachother,
anywho thiere is this guy who is her friend who is always flirting with her, i dont konw how to overcome it
but i just cry
how should i deal with him?
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still together?
Posted Friday June 2 2006, 10:51 pm
me and my boyfriend have been dating not to long, but we've both liked each other since forever... I feel like crap, we haven't got to hang out, he's only called me once, and he'll comment my xanga every once in a while and he'll get online for 5-10 minutes every other day... I dont wanna break up with him, and I've tryed talking to him about it. I just miss him a lot, what should I do? please help? I've been really down and blue for a while and I cant snap out of it!
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blah. i dont kno.
Posted Friday June 2 2006, 10:50 pm
There is the guy that I have 'talked' to twice. The first time he just blew me off and wouldn't return my calls. The second time we got into an arguement and we didn't talk for a week or so and by then he had already found another girl to like. However, this past weekend he has told me that he misses me and stuff, and we hungout the other night and he barely said 5 words to me. I don't understand why he wouldn't talk to me if he misses me and wants to talk more and stuff. Do you think if the opportunity came around I should give him another chance? This being the third one? I'm afraid of liking him again and then in the end being the one left upset and hurt. Boys are confusing.
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ask him
Posted Friday June 2 2006, 6:39 pm
i just met this kid last week, he's cute, funny, nice etc. he was the one who called me to hang out 1st but i always feel like when we talk i am getting mixed signals, like he seems to like me but then he just signs of line or puts on an away message without saying bye & the convorsation just ends. we hung out twice last week wehn we 1st met (he asked me both times) i want to hang out again but is it too soon to ask him? i don't want to seem like a loser or to clingy. is it bad for me too call him? can anyone tell me what to do? & why doesn't he say good bye online?
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Break up.
Posted Friday June 2 2006, 6:09 pm
Ok. so here's the deal..... My boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago on the last day of school. I think the reason why was because I was kinda being a jerk that day because my mom made me REALLY mad the night before. Well anyway.... I WANT HIM BACK! He was the sweetest guy that I had ever met. He might have thrown some little fits here and there since he's used to getting his way, but most of the time he was very affectionate. His birthday is coming up in a couple of days and I want to ask him back out as a present. The only thing is, I'm not sure if he'll take me back and how I'm gonna ask him. Any suggestions?
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