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If the guy you like, asked you if you liked him, what would you say? Should you tell him the truth and take the risk, or just tell him you don't like him and keep it all inside for him to find out?
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Hi, If you want my opinion I personally would say it only if it felt like the right place at the right time. If I didnt like him I would just be honested but let him down gently. Remember Males have feelings too. Daniel.
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tell him.
because if you never tell him and he does like you then he will feel like it will never work out with you to or something
and go out with someone else
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Be comfortable. I would say something like 'did you catch the season premiere of [insert show name]' or have you heard [insert song here]. Tell him the truth. Don't play the 'hard to get' act because he might get the wrong message and not be interested.
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tell him you dumbass
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definetely tell him how you feel. you beat around the bush- youre takig a chance that he mightmove on to someone else. its not worth it- be honest with him.
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You should totallly tell him cause if you tell him you dont he might be like okay next a guy usually gives you one chance i had the same problem so i consulted my friends and one of my brothers friends hes like the "ladies man" lol well yeah totally tell him and if he already asked you ask him or just tell him you know how i told you that i didnt like you well i have a confession i do
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Honestly? Having been in this exact situation, I would say yes.
When I was 12, I was (I thought) really in love with this guy and I had kept it a secret for around a year. Then, it all came out at a party and the next week at school, he came up to me and just asked me straight out "Do you fancy me, Vikki?" And I was SO embarrassed!! My cheeks were flaming, I couldn't look up from what I was writing and I just muttered "No!" and he walked away.
Years on, I found out he actually did like me and although I don't regret it now, I regretted not having told him how I felt for a long time!!!
So, although it seems like the end of the world when a guy you like finds out how you feel but trust me, it's worse when you realise you missed the opportunity for something to come of it.
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The truth always is the best policy. Only good things come out of truths, and only bad things out of lies. Besides, he would only ask if he had some small interest in you. :)
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yeah gurl i have a boyrfriend myself and we have been going out for 4 months going on 5 this is our second time going out and the first time we went out for 3 weeks and broke up. we went to the same school and everythang but we just didnt talk so i broke up with him. if he ask you and you sit there he is gon think you childish spit game to him and let him know how you fellin
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Tell him because odds are if he asked you, he might like you and he just wants to know if you like him back.
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Go for the truth. It will show you are confident and courageous. Even if he doesn't like you, who cares? Then you'll move on to the next guy. Everybody gets rejected at least once in their lives, so don't worry about it. But always tell your feelings because you never know, he might like you back :).
-cindy <3
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i think you should go for it and tell the truth. i would forsure. the risk always seems better, and although you are risking soimething, its really not that bad. if you lie, then he will most likely find out you lied and not be happy. dont worry - a guy would be retarded not to like you :) good luck hun
hope this helps!! :] ♥
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I think he would ask that if he liked you.
If I were you, I'd just come out and say that I liked him instead of taking the risk that if he did like me, him possibly moving on.
hope i helped!
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I don't think he'd ask you if you liked him unless he was interested. I could be wrong, but it definitley seems like something to me. A lot of people never get the right opportunity to tell the person they like how they feel, but you have it. It's cliche, but if you don't do it you might regret it later and might wonder what could have been if you had told him. Tell him the truth about how you feel. Don't delay it any longer. The worst that could happen is that he won't feel the same way, but at least you'll know for sure then. And you'll feel much better once its off your chest.
Good luck with it.
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Life is full of risks. Take the risk and tell him if you like him or not. Who knows he might even like you back. If he doesn't like you then you can move on to the next guy and if he does like you then you and him may have a future. But that future won't come to past if you don't take the risk.
So I say go for it.
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I would always say take the risk, but thats of course up to you. Certainly dont say that you "dont" like him if you do. I mean, avoid the question, refuse to answer, throw the question back at him, anything rather than lying. If you tell him you dont like him, I think you run a huge risk of losing the guy.
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