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my boyfriend


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 11:31 am

ok well my boyfriend and i have been going out for allmost 4 weeks and i dont get to see him that much cuz i met him at this camp but he calls me everyday. the last time he called was tuesday and i have tried calling him but he hasnt answered. well yesterday i was tlaking to a friend online (he is friends with my boyfriend) and he said that they were tlkaing and he mentioned that he wanted to break up. well they talked last week on monday and i talked to him on the fone after that conversation. I dont know what to do...i tried calling im like everyday every minute but i dont know if hes really not there or avoiding the calls and if and wen i do et a hold of him...what should i say? please help...thanx

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What should I do about the boy I like ?


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 10:45 am

i like my good friend jake & about a month ago his friend told me he liked me. then about a week ago his other friend asked me if i liked him & i said yes. so now that jake knows i like him, i don't know what to do. we haven't talked, but he seems to send messages from his friends to me.

he's a very shy so i know he's scared to ask me out, so should i do it? i'm a pretty bold person, but i'm scared to ask him out because i'm not sure what will happen. i know he likes me but he could still act weird and say no. he's not exactly the most mature guy & he might just do what his friends say or something.

the fair is coming up. should i wait for him to come to me, or should i go up to him? if i should g...

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I've always been...SHYYYYYY!


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 9:58 am

I feel pretty weird asking this, probably because I think every girl asks at least once. I like a boy and suddenly I'm terrified to go near him. There are two things wrong with this. One, I'm the opposite of shy. I'm not just saying that, either. When it comes to anything else I'm outgoing and LOUD. Secondly, this has never happened before! I'm in 10th grade and this is so new to me, it's scary. I really want to talk to him, but I always lose track for about 5 seconds and get this powerful fluttering thing in my stomach. How do I make it stop, and what can I do?

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he loves me.. he loves me not.


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 3:03 am

I know the subject makes it sound like I don't know if he like me or not... BUT THAT ISN'T THE QUESTION. This guy started liking me so I liked him eventually. Then he asked me on a date or something and I said yes. He asked me on the date over AIM and he made it sound like we were going out.. which I was fine with. Now some people say 'your going out with brittany' and he says 'no, we are just gunna hang out'. So.. I guess my question is, how can I get him to like me again. We are still going on a double-date tomorow to go to the mall and see a movie. I am 14/f and he is 14/m. I know some people may say 'play hard to get', but if you say that, please include ways I can do that. Please no critisizing about my situation because I lef...

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I have a crush on a guy but I don't know if he likes me.


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 2:57 am

There's this guy at my work whom I'm interested in. I'm into him mainly because he seems like a very nice, smart, hardworking guy. I'm quitting this job in about a month so I'm not worried about anything interferring with work. I know that he's single for sure, otherwise I wouldn't consider dating him. We've rarely spoken, but I believe he he may be interested in me too because of some signs he shows. For instance, whenever we pass by each other, he says hello to me in a nice soft way with a great looking smile. The way he smiles at me and the way he smiles to other people are different. When he smiles at me, he tends to look at me significantly longer than other girls and it just seems kind of familiar. It's hard to explain. We never actu...

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im not sure if he likes me or if i should go with him or not


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 1:54 am

ok well i sorta just got out of a bad reltionship like a month or two ago nd im finally starting to like other ppl...well theres this guy i like nd he knows i like him nd he said he likes me to but im not sure nd i realized that hes one of those playboy guys who has a lot of girls around him nd stays in reletionships for like a month but he seems different and i dont know im confused...i just sorta got away from a guy like that nd i dont want to get hurt again but i dont just wanna mess around for a month too...what do u think i should do?

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Age difference.


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 12:38 am

I'm 13/f and I was talking online with a friend, who he is 17. We have alot in common and stuff, so he asked me out. I was just wondering, what do you think is the maximum age difference? I really like this guy, and if he was my age, I would go out with him without question, but, is this age different ok?
Thanks in advance.

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Is it love or lust?


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 12:12 am

OK, can anyone give me their personal experiences or advice about knowing if someone likes you? Yes, I did google "flirting" and I understood all that. but, the person I am talking about is my best friends husband. He has done all those things they gave me in knowing the signals, but, at the same time, for some reason I dont think he likes me in that way. He teases, jokes around, stares a little, touches and even sometimes makes sexual comments. The thing is, how can I tell if he is being flirty or just friendly? Thanks

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The secret, the divorce, the pain


Posted Friday July 28 2006, 12:04 am

My husband and I are divorcing over the fact that I wasn't a virgin when we got married, 5 years ago. Back when we were dating, I'd cheated on him and fooled around with another guy. I hated myself for it so I couldn't bring myself to tell him. Now one of my friends told him and he got so mad. I'd tried to explain why I didn't want to bring it up, but he was too hurt to care. We've tried to talk about it several times, but it only made both of us hurt worse. So now we're getting a divorce and we've agreed not to see or speak to each other anymore, which sucks because we know we're still in love with each other. It's just too painful... As if that's not bad enough, I just found out I'm pregnant. What the hell do I do? I don't know if I could...

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confused friendship


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 11:11 pm

I have been friends with this guy since i was 12 im now 17 in the past year n a half we became really close to the point where he will stay at my house and stuff... he went to college but every weekend he would come home and stay here... I used to like him and i told him and he told me that he didn't wanna ruin the friendship and that he didn't feel the same way... One day we were layin in my bed watchin tv and we started messin around and ended up havin sex. It only happen the one time but now he like comes over more and we are always together and everyone thinks we are a couple but were not. All my close friends tells me that he likes me he just won't admit it and i don't kno what to do or think Help

sorry its soo long

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Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 10:52 pm

there is this guy that i know very well. but we have never actually talked in person. we know each other but mostly just from online. well my friend told me that he saw him. my heart almost came out of my throat. i wanted to look pretty. i was so scared to see him. i dont know what to say to him in person. even though i feel like we are best friends. what should i do. i almost peed myself.

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My crush doesnt even know who i am!!


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 9:39 pm

I have a HUGE crush on this guy. But we don't really know each other that well. So it would be kind of weird if i just randomly went up to him and had a conversation with him. Any tips on how to get to know him better once school starts up again?

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does he like me?


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 8:59 pm

14/f..

ok. things that make it seem like this kid likes me:
-when he says hi, he blushes & then looks down
-he looks at me a whole lot.
-he always smiles at me
-all of his friends, ask if i'm jaci.. [ thats my name]
-at this party, everyone screamed, JACIS HERE!
& my one friend said, that he looked over at me smiled & then looked down
-hes really shy around me..bc he talked to all the other girls=/ is that bad?
-at this fair..everyone said he'd watch me wherever i went & followed me around.
-at this baseball field.. his friends kept looking at me & so did his brother & theyd smile at me, & then i could hear the kid i like say "shh ...

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how do i get him to notice me?


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 8:34 pm

well to start things off.. im 15/f

theres this guy that i absolutley adore!(16/m) hes funny, interesting, and down to earth.. well were pretty good friends and i talk to him alot online. the problem is that he just got out of a relationship and still misses that other girl (like ALOT) and i tell him things are gunna turn around and everything. but i really dont think that he thinks of me as anything more than a friend. how can i get him to notice me like that without straight out telling him i like him?

<3 totally confused..

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whats wrong?


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 6:46 pm

me and my gf broke up like 3 weeks ago but we still hang out sometimes. we were watching a movie and when it was over we started makin out and so i stopped real quick and was like, "we're still friends, okay?" and she didnt say anything so i kept kissin her but she wasnt kissing me back and she started crying so i kinda just left. we've talked since then but why was she crying??? did i do the right thing??? what should i have done if i didnt??? what do i do now???

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what should i do


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 6:46 pm

Ok here goes im 17 theres this guy that i dated awhile ago and i cant seem to get over him and we always end up goin back to each other to mess around n stuff but i want more than that and i finally told him how i felt and he said that he wanted to be single for the rest of the summer because he has a bet with his dad which he does because i talked to his father... (im really close wit his fam) and he said that we will decided what we are gonna do when school starts again but im sick of waiting im scared that hes not gonna wanna get back with me... he says he does but i dont believe him... ive waited around soo long and i dont kno what to to help

17/f

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Popped Her Cherry


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 4:32 pm

I know someone probably already asked this, and I tried looking for the question on search questions but I cound't find it..What does it mean when a guy pops a girl's cherry? Doesn't it mean she lost her virginity to him? I'm not sure..

<3

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the tough break up : (


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 3:25 pm

14/f
Well, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months last night around 11:50. I dont even know what I was thinking! I was confused and I kept thinking about what would happen if he broke up with me. then I guess I started conviceing myself that he WAS cheating on me and I broke up with him. He didnt seem too upset. After I got off the phone with him I balled my head off for hours. I even started gasping for air and then started choking. I dont know what that was all about but thats how much I was crying. anyways then I talked to my friend Zach till i dont know what time but we talked for at least 3 hours. He cheered me up some but I still cant help but think about him. I love him more than life itself! I miss him so much an...

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confused


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 2:06 pm

I have this friend shes a rly good friend to me. She HAD a boyfrined for a year and then she broke up with him. Well i was frineds with him and we still are and we talk on line and stuff. But i feel like im startin to develop a crush on him. i dont kno why he was supposed to stop by my house today to jus chill, and i have no idea what im supposed to do. I like him but icant do tht to my close friend. I need help. what do ido.



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6 month present for my bf.


Posted Thursday July 27 2006, 12:29 pm

im 17/f and i have been with my bf (17/m) for almost 6 months. we are completely in love and very serious. this was MY idea just to clear it up.
being that we are going to be so serious and before we nkow it even living together ..i figure we are still young and many people make the mistake of marrying a high school sweetheart without exploring other people. so my idea is for our 6 months we each get sexual with another person. do you know anyone who has done this? how did it work out? whenever i think about him with somenoe else its so weird! and the same for him thinking about me with someone else. this can really bring us to be a lot more open and trusting..but im also afraid i might feel hurt..thinking about another girl pleas...

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