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I've always been...SHYYYYYY!
I feel pretty weird asking this, probably because I think every girl asks at least once. I like a boy and suddenly I'm terrified to go near him. There are two things wrong with this. One, I'm the opposite of shy. I'm not just saying that, either. When it comes to anything else I'm outgoing and LOUD. Secondly, this has never happened before! I'm in 10th grade and this is so new to me, it's scary. I really want to talk to him, but I always lose track for about 5 seconds and get this powerful fluttering thing in my stomach. How do I make it stop, and what can I do?
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So..i am just like you. I always get that feeling..and what you need to do is take a few deep breaths..and talk to him like hes ur brother..or best friend..or something..it definately works..hope i helped some :]
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ugh i hate that. ou just say your gonna do somthing you gonna talk to him youcan do it, but then when you get there its like ahhh! and you cant. The only thing you can really do it suck it up and dowhat you wanna. Just thnk after it happens how much better you will feel. Sorry if that not much help. But you just have to be yyourself.
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The reason you feel scared and nervous to talk to him is because you really like him. You don't want to embarass yourself or you don't want him to think anything bad of you. You need to just be yourself. I know you might hear that a lot but it's true. How else is he going to get to know you? Have fun and flirt with him. If he thought you were a freak he probablly wouldn't even be near you but he doesn't so just relax. You can't really make that feeling in your tummy just stop. It's mostly because you're nervous and you must really like him. So, like I said, have fun and be yourself. He's just a guy. :]
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The same used to happen to me,that shyness started to go away by itself, I think perhaps because of the simple fact that I had this guy friend,I got used to being around a guy,which also help me get rid of that fear as well.Tell yourself that you can do this,you really should don't wait till the last minute,stop worrying,act as if he's one of your friends that you talk you seem like you definitely can talk.
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conquer your fear and go talk to him but before you do prcatice a little of what to say also it might work to have a friend or femily member naxt to you to help it worked for me
if u need anything else email me at sis13@neo.rr.com
sis321
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You're the same as me. I'm loud & crazy & fun around anyone but the person I like alot. I hate it. I'm shy around the people I like, because I don't want to embaress myself. But, all you can really do is, be yourself. Just suck it up, go say heyyyyy & be yourself. & hope for the best.
k hope i helped! bye=)
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