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my boyfriend
ok well my boyfriend and i have been going out for allmost 4 weeks and i dont get to see him that much cuz i met him at this camp but he calls me everyday. the last time he called was tuesday and i have tried calling him but he hasnt answered. well yesterday i was tlaking to a friend online (he is friends with my boyfriend) and he said that they were tlkaing and he mentioned that he wanted to break up. well they talked last week on monday and i talked to him on the fone after that conversation. I dont know what to do...i tried calling im like everyday every minute but i dont know if hes really not there or avoiding the calls and if and wen i do et a hold of him...what should i say? please help...thanx
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Well,
Sometimes, your boyfriends friend will lie and say "So-And-So wants to break up with you."
You can't always believe what he says...
You need to talk to him if/when you talk to him.
Say, "Your friend told me you wanted to break up with me. Is this true?" and see what he says.
Maybe his friend wasn't lieing. But maybe he was. You will never know unless you find out yourself.
Also, ask him about not answering his phone. Say, "Were you avoiding my calls or just not availible?"
Do you call a cell phone to get to him, or his home phone #?
If its a cell, don't you think he would call you back if he saw missed call?
If its a house, there's caller ID. He can look at the call time and see that you called.
If he doesn't have caller ID ((which I doubt)) then you're pretty much screwed. lol.
Well,
You don't need to believe every word that everyone says because HALF of what people say turns out false.
It's called a rumor.
If he was telling the truth and yo uask him and he doesn't say anything or he says, "I don't know..." Say, "Well, you're not the breaking up with me. I'm breaking up with you." and hang up on him.
He should be sure of himself and "I don't know." Is just innacceptable.
Besides, you deserve someone else. If yall hardly ever even see each other, it's stupid to waster your tiem on him when you can get a local guy who you see all the time and trust more.
Trust me. True love will come. :-]]
If you need any more help or if you need me to clarify something than you can send me a message in my inbox.
♥ Kayla
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well for one thing, dont keep calling too much. youll seem REALLY clingy & that definitely wont help your situation. either he really is away, or he's not quite sure what to do yet so hes avoiding your calls while he debates on what to do. or he's just a jerk and is hoping youll get the picture [hopefully thats not the case!]. all i can say is just wait it out for a couple days and see if he calls you. if he wants to break up, theres not much you can do. but dont keep calling him over and over. if anything just call once more & leave him a voicemail asking him to call you soon. hope this helps! good luck!
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Hey I remember I did this to a guy once. I felt really guilty but I didnt know how to break up with him like I didnt want to hurt his feelings. So i just avoided his calls. Which was really worse because I should have just broken up with him. So this guys PROBABLY avoiding your calls. Sorry girl. It happens. He's probably found someone at school (closer to him) that he likes. Long distance relationships are really hard to keep going because you can't see the person a lot and you can't go out or anything. So if he thinks you should break up well sorry. Try finding someone local. But Cheer up you can hang with your girls and spot cutiies. :)
<3Marissa xox
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hey chica,
Well you cant believe everythin your boyfriends friends tell you. because sometimes they say things becuz they like you. you say that your boyfriend's friend is his best friend.. if he was his bestfriend do u really think he would tell you these kinna things... your boy is just probably busy.. give him time ti think maybe it'll pass. dont call him let him call youu. AND if he does mention brake up THEN you can totally freak out.. but don't pay ne attention unless you've heard it from the person's own mouth.
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to see if he is avoiding you you should dial his number like this
*67 and then the number that way it blocks your number and that way if he answers you know he is avoiding you and then you should break up with him before he breaks up with you...
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You don't know for sure if your boyfriend wants a break. You need to stop calling him every single day and minute. I mean, maybe he's just busy with something or something happened. If he really wants to talk, he'll call you back. Trust me. When you do talk to him, then bring up the conversation about you and him and what his friend said. Just talk about your relationship and see where it can go.
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Have a talk to him,ask him how he feels about the relationship is going,that you're willing to try to fix the problem that he see's that is needed to be solved,that he should be honest with you as well as trust,show that you really care in which I know you do.
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Maybe your mutual friend is jealous of your relationship and just lied about your boyfriend wanting to break up. If your boyfriend really wanted to break up with you, he probably would have by now. If what your friend said is still bothering you, gently bring it up with your boyfriend, but don't be surprised if it creates tension between the three of you.
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