Hey My name is Ashley (15)i'm here to help and give advice to my teen people who need it. ask me about ne thing im totally prepared to answer ne thing u throw at me .. i live in da Bronx so u kno im experienced in a whole lot of things.. i come from the streets n i kno what goes down so dont be afraid to ask ne thing. feel free to i/m Bxboriquababi.
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What do I do if my friend's boyfriend is starting to get physically abusive towards her? Like he always "play" hits her but he goes out of control and keeps "playing" even though she's saying stop. The other day she told me he hit her for real. She barely did anything and he hit her on her face and arm. I personally want to kill him. But what can I tell her? Because she really loves him. That's why she has stayed with him that long. Everytime she calls me she always has something to say about something that he did and tonight when she called me it really made me sad/mad for her. So someone please give me some tips on what to say to her or do for her... Thanks =/ (link)
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tell her playin is all good.. but serioulsy hitting someone can become a a horrible way of life in that realtionship she can end up gettin hurt bad.. if not worse tell her if she doesnt have a death wish to brake up with him as soon as possible.. once an abuser always an abuser
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I'm 13/f and I was talking online with a friend, who he is 17. We have alot in common and stuff, so he asked me out. I was just wondering, what do you think is the maximum age difference? I really like this guy, and if he was my age, I would go out with him without question, but, is this age different ok?
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boys that age only want one thing wit a gurl ur age i think that maximum age diff should be 2-2 1/2 maybe 3 that a big age difference it's goin to be hard to compete with that maturity level n if he seems the same level as you that even worse that a 17 year old boy wit a maturity stsus of a 13 year old which isnt good because that sayin deep down inside he'll always act like a little boy
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OK, can anyone give me their personal experiences or advice about knowing if someone likes you? Yes, I did google "flirting" and I understood all that. but, the person I am talking about is my best friends husband. He has done all those things they gave me in knowing the signals, but, at the same time, for some reason I dont think he likes me in that way. He teases, jokes around, stares a little, touches and even sometimes makes sexual comments. The thing is, how can I tell if he is being flirty or just friendly? Thanks (link)
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HE'S KINDA bein a bit of both which is sneaky watch out for it. dont flirt bac because your friend will notice and totally be upset with you. nodd you head at the compliments he gives and make it seem as thought enough is enough he will read signals and back off.. if he tries nething frisky give him a slap tell him to bac off and report it to your friend. as soon as possible.. now if he's doing the friendly thing be friendly back... but this guy sounds like all flirt to me
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I am going to be a freshman as of aug. 24 and i really want to make a good impression on everybody.What would be a good outfit to wear on orientation and the first day? i wear mostly peppy clothes i guess rather pricey brands: like a&f ae juicy and hollister but i am going to a school that is very mixed so i dont want to look like a snaob or a slut.
Also what type of back back is best for HS right now i bought a northface backpack that is all black. would a messanger bag be good what is trendy? (link)
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hey i feel you im goin to be a freshman too.. i think the best way to go is be you nothing to short or skimmpy that cries out for attention something cute but laid back. bags messenger style is fine.
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i'm 15, i way around 115 pounds, i'm a size 3-4 in jeans, i think my butt is way too big for my body, i have a bunch of stomach and thigh fat, and i'm only 5'2. sometimes i feel like i don't have enough confidence or self esteem because of all these issues i have with myself. i'm 5'2 with a big butt, i no that sounds funny but i need to get rid of it. if i was taller then my butt wouldn't look so big. but i'm short and i have a small head plus my legs are HUGE and i'm a size 4 in jeans! please give me some advice on how to lose weight as fast as possible especially in the stomach, butt and thigh section thank you (link)
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Dear gurl who thinks she has to much of a butt
im shorter then you i'm 5'1 and 110-115Lbs around there i'm the same size pants as you. And i'm here to say there ain't nothing wrong with having a bootie.Guys like a girl with thick legs nice bootie and nice curves.no boy wants a flat as an iorning board girl. BE PROUD. believe or not your average.Girls with big botties range of the sizes of 7-15 jeans. lol dont worry im here with you and out of total confidence i like how i look.. and you should too.hunny if u think you have weight issues i think you should meet some of my friends who are 5'2 n where a size 16 in women. don't worry some girls aren't meant to be toothpicks.
~CHULA
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ok well my boyfriend and i have been going out for allmost 4 weeks and i dont get to see him that much cuz i met him at this camp but he calls me everyday. the last time he called was tuesday and i have tried calling him but he hasnt answered. well yesterday i was tlaking to a friend online (he is friends with my boyfriend) and he said that they were tlkaing and he mentioned that he wanted to break up. well they talked last week on monday and i talked to him on the fone after that conversation. I dont know what to do...i tried calling im like everyday every minute but i dont know if hes really not there or avoiding the calls and if and wen i do et a hold of him...what should i say? please help...thanx (link)
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hey chica,
Well you cant believe everythin your boyfriends friends tell you. because sometimes they say things becuz they like you. you say that your boyfriend's friend is his best friend.. if he was his bestfriend do u really think he would tell you these kinna things... your boy is just probably busy.. give him time ti think maybe it'll pass. dont call him let him call youu. AND if he does mention brake up THEN you can totally freak out.. but don't pay ne attention unless you've heard it from the person's own mouth.
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