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im not sure if he likes me or if i should go with him or not
ok well i sorta just got out of a bad reltionship like a month or two ago nd im finally starting to like other ppl...well theres this guy i like nd he knows i like him nd he said he likes me to but im not sure nd i realized that hes one of those playboy guys who has a lot of girls around him nd stays in reletionships for like a month but he seems different and i dont know im confused...i just sorta got away from a guy like that nd i dont want to get hurt again but i dont just wanna mess around for a month too...what do u think i should do?
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well you answer your own question, if you no that this guy is a player, why would you even go there.
there's way too many guys in the world save your self the heart break and look for another guy
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hello,
I hear your pain getting out of bad relationships are really hard.If your postive this guy is one of those playboy types? why would you wanna go back with him.But maybe he thinks your different..witch i hate to say is a slight chance.I'm not gunna tell you to go for it or not because i think you have it pretty much figured out yourself.If you dont wanna mess around for a month don't.If you do wanna mess around go for it?
i hope i was a help
-Alex
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Even though you like him,tell him your not interested,it maight be painful to say thatat the moment,BUT its better than the pain youll feel when he leaves you in a month for another girl.Youve just gotten out of a relationship cuz the guy was like your NEW crush,so learn from bad experiences and dont make the same mistakes TWICE.
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Hey!
Hmm... Sometimes, you shouldn't listen to what other people say or care about what other people think.
I understand you don't want to get hurt again, which is TOTALLY understandable. You cannot go through life always worrying about whether or not you get hurt. Maybe he'll change for you because he really likes you and you guys will end up happy and dedicated to each other. Or he could be just like the others. Sometimes, you have to take chances! ♥
Try talking to him about it... that could work.
Tell him you like him and everything but if he wants to be with you, he needs to treat you like you're the only one he sees and you're the only girl in his life. Sure, he can have friends and stuff but he needs to focus on you, not other girls.
Tell him that you want to be with him but he needs to straighten up because he is NOT going to hurt you!!! :-]]
If you need any further advice or if I didn't clarify things enough, you can put a message in my inbox and I will answer it the best I can!
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♥ Kayla
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i would be upfront with this new guy and tell him that you don't go out with players and that if he wants to go out with you then he has to be dedicated to just you. since you just got out of a bad relationship i can totally understand that you don't want this one to be messed up. so i wouldn't start it unless you both have a good conversation about what his feelings are. hope i helped! =]]] if you need any clarifying let me know!
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