|
how do i get him to notice me?
well to start things off.. im 15/f
theres this guy that i absolutley adore!(16/m) hes funny, interesting, and down to earth.. well were pretty good friends and i talk to him alot online. the problem is that he just got out of a relationship and still misses that other girl (like ALOT) and i tell him things are gunna turn around and everything. but i really dont think that he thinks of me as anything more than a friend. how can i get him to notice me like that without straight out telling him i like him?
<3 totally confused..
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
just be his friend for now, even if thats hard to do. he just got out of a relationship, and he's still hurtin, so you gotta respect that. of course hes not gonna see you as more than a friend right now. give the poor guy a break, and just be there for him. once things blow over, he could end up liking you as more than a friend. just dont push the matter too much, it wont help, so just chill for awhile and later on if you still feel the same way, you could tell him or hint to him that you like him. but for now, just give him some space. good luck!
]
Let me tell you one thing first: RESPECT if he still misses or perhaps if he still loves his ex.
It's natural-give him time to "grieve" a little. In no time, he will get over it, too.
Just show him that you're always there for him. Make him smile a lot. Make him laugh a lot. I know it's a bit cheesy but this IS effective, I'm telling you. Make him feel that even without her, he can still be happy--with you.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit!
]
Hang around more with him. Don't "talk to him alot online", talk to him alot face to face. That way he'll definitely notice your presence and your concern for him.
Guys will start noticing and remembering you when you start to show [[genuine]] care and concern for them. Just dun be a fake though.
Show him your personality. If you're fun and crazy, show it. I wont say "just be yourself" bcoz you tend to be a different person with different people. Am I right? And I dun even know wat the heck it means to just be myself. I dun even know wat's myself because i behave diffently to different people. Anyways, the right thing for me to say, is to stay true to yourself and dun talk or do actions that you're uncomfortable with when you're around him. Simple. NO crap bout being yourself. Haha.
Enjoy your time around him and he'll enjoy his around you; that way, he'll love being around you and then he'll notice you.
]
Guys are pretty stupid. At least when it comes to girls. If oyu want him to know, pretty much the only way to let him know is to straight out tell him. It may be difficult, but jsut take a deep breath and go for it. You have nothing to lose! If he doesn't feel the same way, wait about three days, and everything will be back to normal, like it never even happened.
If you don't say anything and never do anything about it, you'll only kick yourself later for not taking that chance. So go for it. Life shouldn't be filled with regrets.
good luck!!!
♥
]
More Questions: |