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what's going on?


Posted Friday August 25 2006, 1:34 pm

Ok, this might be long so I'm sorry hehe. Im 15 and female and have been with my boyfriend for a year. When we first got toegther he was really romantic and sweet (imporant thing for me) and it was great and we were getting on really well. Now it seems as if he couldn't care less about us. We only see each other twice a week...if that. Everytime he leave to go home I end up in tears because i feel like things are beyond repair. He often makes little comments which make me feel like crap, he also brags a lot which make me feel worse because he has a lot of money and gets a lot of things. He spends a lot of time with his mates and has said in the past that they come before me, which is fair enough. He doesnt very often make the effort to see ...

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my boyfriend of 2 yeras won't stop smoking pot


Posted Friday August 25 2006, 12:43 pm

My problem is my boyfried has been smoking pot for about 5 years now, and i am having trouble dealing with his habit. He does not get high around me or expose me to it. He only does it once and month because we came up with a compromise that we can both live with while i go away to school.

Though he insists in complaining to no end about it. He isn't addicted but he feels it is "apart of who he is as a person" which i think it bullshit. However when i express how it makes me feel to him he says that i shouldn't feel like it's my fault because it is his problem.

I can't get married to him he is is still smoking pot years later you know? I just want him to stop then we wouldn't fight about it so mu...

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ah triangle!


Posted Friday August 25 2006, 12:36 pm

ok so there is this boy who is two years older than me (im 16) he has a gf who is 20, they pretty much only date for sex.
i like him ALOT and i have liked him for a long time. he is always flirting with me and being nice and all of my friends swear that he likes me. he has told me he thinks im pretty and that if he didnt have his gf he would date me. it almost hurts me inside because of how frusterated i am. i am a very prude girl and wouldnt take advantage of a guy, (his girlfriend treats him like dirt) he told me that he has trouble breaking up with girls because he doesnt like to hurt them.
if i have an opportunity to hook up with him should i go for it?
p.s. his girlfriend cheats on him

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Confused With My Ex..


Posted Friday August 25 2006, 9:38 am

I'm going into 9th and Kevin is going into 10th. He and I used to date last summer[I was going into 8th grade and Kevin into 9th grade] but we decided to break it off [since we won't be able to see each other[he would be in high school and I would be in middle] and my mom is overprotective like woah].

Now that I'm gonna be going into high school and I'd probably see Kevin around, he's been trying to get together with me--a lot--over the summer. [Wanting to come over my house, hang out with him at his, join this club that he's in, come to his work, go to the movies, etc.]And he just IMed me from 10 30 -11 30 at night while I was away 288 times for an hour ._0 And me and his/my friends thinks he wants to go out with me again.<...

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Posted Friday August 25 2006, 5:36 am

I really like this girl but am to afrain to ask her out or talk to her from fear of rejection. I really like her and want a relationship but i dunno what to do. Any advice?

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just wondering


Posted Friday August 25 2006, 3:27 am

i was just wondering. why do wifes give in or obay thier husbands. i know some girls say they don't but iv'e noticed that they do.

i've just noticed that my mom and sister normally give in to their husbands wants or wishes like when my stepdad wants somthing he gets it but when i want somthing i dont or she'll make food for him but not for me or somtimes she excuses his bad behavoirs and dosnt excuse mine. ive also noticed both my mom and sister give in to thier fights and let thier husbands win just so there wont be a big fight even though they know there right and i just wanna know why. what makes them do that? how come they say they wont but then do? could someone please help

thanks

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My Best Friend


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 11:35 pm

Age: 14
Gender: Male

Okay, so there's this girl I really like (E), and this other girl (B) my best friend likes. My friend really loves B, he's told me a million times, and he's loved her for a really long time. I've loved E for a long time, not as much time as my friend has liked B, but still pretty long. Ever since I told my friend I love E, he's been nicer and nicer to her. Which I wouldn't mind if it was just the friendly type of niceness, but it's not. It's the "gotta crush on ya" type of niceness. I've asked him about this, and he says he's treating her exactly the same as he always has, but I've noticed a difference. I just am really confused. Do friends normally do these kind of things?

Thanks,

-Fyce

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what do i do?


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 10:50 pm

okay, well im 14 years old, turning 15 in a month. i've been with my boyfriend now for a little more than 11 months. and me and my friends were in my town the other night, and we saw these 3 really hot kids and we gave them our numbers. and they called us and we hung out that night. then the next day all my girl friends, and all the guys we met went to the movies. im going into 9th grade, and the guys we met are going into 11th. one of the guys likes me, and i think about him alot, and im scared im starting to like him too. he told me he likes me and he asked if he should like stick around. i mean idk what to do. its not fair to my boyfriend. so please please please help me!

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to dump or not to dump??


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 9:09 pm

i need some help here.my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months now and our realationship is doing fine but i think there's a problem.everytime i ask him to go somewhere with me like a week before we go he says yeah.but at the last minute he'll call and say he can't go.i that always makes me made but i didn't tell him.i'm a rookie runner for my schools marching band and my 3 friends are runners but there's another rookie who is a year younger then all of us and he's really cute and i like him like him.hes funny and nice and cute.but then he starts dating my friend.but my other runner friend said that they probably won't last.he's the only boy runner and he even said he don't think the realationship will last.and i can't take my bf ...

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ex vs. bf


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 7:16 pm

so i have been dating this guy since mid-july.. and i really like him.. we had been hanging out since june and i had had a crush on him since may. so its not really a new thing that just happened spur of the moment. anyway.. i dated this other kid who goes to a different school than me for like 3 months last october-jan and we broke up, but both had feelings for each other cuz the break up happen because of a silly fight. at one point tho, i think he liked me more than i liked him.(he brought me roses on v-day and we weren't even dating) i see him the most in the summer, so once summer started, i started to like him again. i wasn't sure if it because i was seeing him more or if it was because he was getting alot of attention from other girl...

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What to do


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 7:07 pm

So me and this guy had a thing for eachother. We were getting really close. Well he moved a while back and comes home often. But...now we haven't talked for a while and it seems as if we are falling apart. How do i talk to him again so we can be as close as we used to be and maybe end up in a relationship?

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PLEAAAAAAAAASE answer


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 6:23 pm

I dont even know where to start.
Well, ok. My BFF Got a new boyfriend Named Kyle and she was most deffinetly in love I could tell! Then she found out Kyle has a brother thats my age too!His name was Brian so we decided to go on a double date! I was so excited to meet him. We all went to the buffet for the date. When I met brian we never stopped talking! we chated for hours! so long, my BFF and kyle left and said they would see us later. that night we talked on the phone for hours and the next day we went to the movie. before it started Brian asked if I would be his girlfriend! I was so shocked I said yes. I really really really liked Brian! so Bad! at the movie we held hands!!! then this is where the problum started - you see, Kyle ...

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is he serious?


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 6:21 pm

i dated this one boy in 9th grade for a few months and then i realized that my feelings had changed and broke up with him. then 2 weeks later he got another girlfriend and i got jealous and took him back. then in 10th grade last year i thought i liked him again and we were gunna date but i fell for another boy. then again he got a girlfriend and i made him break up with her for me. but not i realize that i really do wanna be with him and that hes the only boy i'll ever love. and hes talking to this other girl too and he tells me he really likes her and hes not sure he can be with me. i know i've messed up in the past but i dont know what to do to get him back. he told me that i have to prove to him that he can trust me and im not sure how t...

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im really sad.


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 4:09 pm

k, so me and the ex. we dated for over 2 years. he broke up with me because he thought we were too serious. it's been about a month now, he's over it. i'm not. what are things i can do to completely get over it, besides hang out with friends (they all work a lot), find another guy (im not interested yet), or write. please help me.

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"do you like carrotcake?"


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 2:27 pm

uhmm, what the heck? okay so my crush recently asked me if i liked carrotcake or not, and i was like "uhh, what kinda question is that, you're so random!" and he was like "no i think you can really learn alot about a person by asking that question!" SO WHAT THE HECK? is it like a trick question? is there a special answer guys expect when they ask this to a girl? or is my guy just a weirdo? (haha) so im just thinking.. instead of answering the question, i'd like to make a joke out of it, or just randomly move away from the subject instead of having to answer that question were i might get the "wrong" answer.. you know? maybe its something he's made up in his mind, like "if the girl says YES, she's the one f...

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Any Guys?


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 9:04 am

Does any body kno any guys who r single and hott who live in maryland?? if u do answer and send me a pic at RBbabi2@msn.com thansk

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Liking two people at the same time.


Posted Thursday August 24 2006, 12:42 am

what do you do if you like two guys at once and they both like you??

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Hurtful relationship


Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 11:27 pm





This is kinda long, but your advice is appreciated :-)

Met this guy Gerard after a bad relationship. Wasnt COMPLETELY over it, but I really liked Gerard, and learned to love him and move on in a short period of time when I met him, like two weeks, after breaking up with the ex five weeks previous. I told Gerard I wasnt talking to the ex, but I was, didnt have feelings for the ex, just felt bad cause he was asked to leave the youth club we met.

I lied to Gerard about my grades (as he placed SO much emphasis on education and made me feel stupied at times, which I am sensitive about) and a few people I dated along with talking to my ex. In my eyes wee white lies occur at the beg...

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Boyfriend :\


Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 10:49 pm

I;m 14 an I Have had a few boyfriends but the thing is i cant stay that long with them when ever i see them or they want to even just talk to me i get weird and break up with them but heres the weird thing when we are not togther i can do anything hold hands kiss hangout talk without getting weird but once i know where togther i get weird. Whats worng?

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ninja boyfriend


Posted Wednesday August 23 2006, 10:36 pm

my boyfriend of a year has just recently taken up karate. he has a real job until 2 and his classes are from 7-8:30 sometimes 9. it takes up so much time that we barely see each other anymore. i think the karate is pointless because he is 19 years old and he's only doing it because he envy's his best friend who has a black belt. my boyfriend has been doing it for 2 months now and he's not even a white belt. how can i tell him enough is enough and quit without him getting angry?

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