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my boyfriend of 2 yeras won't stop smoking pot
My problem is my boyfried has been smoking pot for about 5 years now, and i am having trouble dealing with his habit. He does not get high around me or expose me to it. He only does it once and month because we came up with a compromise that we can both live with while i go away to school.
Though he insists in complaining to no end about it. He isn't addicted but he feels it is "apart of who he is as a person" which i think it bullshit. However when i express how it makes me feel to him he says that i shouldn't feel like it's my fault because it is his problem.
I can't get married to him he is is still smoking pot years later you know? I just want him to stop then we wouldn't fight about it so much. I'm sick of just dealing with it i want it gone all of it and i don't want him to ever touch it again! I'm only 19 years old but I want to spend the rest of my life with him but i can't do that if he is still getting high.
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I think you just need to sit down with him and have a serious talk with him. Just be like,"Look, I want to be with you, and spend my life with you, but I can't do that if you're always getting high. Even though you say its YOUR problem, it's not. I'm your girlfriend, so it's MY problem too. I care about you alot, and I just want you to be healthy and I want us to stop fighting about it. I'm just really worried about you and everything, and I just want you to stop smoking it." [ or something like that ] If he really cares about you, he should be willing to give up pot for you guys's relationship. I agree with you, he can't keep doing it. If you two do get married, I mean, what's he gonna do? Smoke pot around your children? I would also mention that to him. Ask him if he'd ever want HIS kids to be sitting there smoking pot, cause I'm sure he wouldn't want them to.
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So you should read some of those, and you should have your boyfriend read some of them too. I hope I helped. <3
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Well you should sit him down, and tell him how you feel and how it is can and will mess up your guy's furture together.Tell him he should be willing to sacrifise something so little for your guyses relationship. Or even suggest him to find ways to quit like smokeing every once every 2 months and then 1 every 3 months ect. Hope i helped
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