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Question Posted Friday August 25 2006, 12:36 pm

ok so there is this boy who is two years older than me (im 16) he has a gf who is 20, they pretty much only date for sex.
i like him ALOT and i have liked him for a long time. he is always flirting with me and being nice and all of my friends swear that he likes me. he has told me he thinks im pretty and that if he didnt have his gf he would date me. it almost hurts me inside because of how frusterated i am. i am a very prude girl and wouldnt take advantage of a guy, (his girlfriend treats him like dirt) he told me that he has trouble breaking up with girls because he doesnt like to hurt them.
if i have an opportunity to hook up with him should i go for it?
p.s. his girlfriend cheats on him


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MelLeDisko answered Friday August 25 2006, 10:12 pm:
I know you like him alot, but I wouldn't go out with him. If he's trying to hook up with YOU, while dating HER, he could just as easily try to hook up with another girl while he's dating you. And also, if him and her are just dating for sex, he just might want to date you for sex too. If you really want to get together with him though, wait until he breaks up with her at least. Don't help him cheat. Don't be the "other girl". Be the "girlfriend". And just tell him,"I know you don't like to hurt girls, but look how she's hurt you. She treats you like dirt, she cheats on you, she should get dumped. She doesn't deserve to have you." I hope I helped. <3

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hitler_the_goat answered Friday August 25 2006, 9:29 pm:
yes, go for it. and enjoy yourself in the process.
-gunner

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caramella answered Friday August 25 2006, 6:54 pm:
I dont think you should be with him now,until he breaks up with her.Because if he cheats on her with you,he will one day cheat on you with another.Help him break up with this woman.Tell him that shes not worth it and that shes cheating on him then tell him how you feel towards him and that if he dont feel the same youll understand.

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marti answered Friday August 25 2006, 6:24 pm:
I would say try it out but don't get too attached to him .. ive heard similar stories and they dont end up well. . . he might just want to date oyu too for sex you know. . guys put girls in a trance very easily wether you want to think its true or not and if he tells you that what would stop him from saying that to other girls if oyu were together? think about some things first alright hope i helped

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