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to dump or not to dump??
i need some help here.my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months now and our realationship is doing fine but i think there's a problem.everytime i ask him to go somewhere with me like a week before we go he says yeah.but at the last minute he'll call and say he can't go.i that always makes me made but i didn't tell him.i'm a rookie runner for my schools marching band and my 3 friends are runners but there's another rookie who is a year younger then all of us and he's really cute and i like him like him.hes funny and nice and cute.but then he starts dating my friend.but my other runner friend said that they probably won't last.he's the only boy runner and he even said he don't think the realationship will last.and i can't take my bf canceling on me the last minute.it makes me think that he doesnt wanna do anything with me.so my question is should i dump my bf and go with the runner when they break up or should i stay with me bf???
sry my questions too long.
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Well, first I think you should talk to him. Ask him why he keeps cancelling on you, and it's really hurting your feelings because you always make these plans like, a week ahead of time and then he just keeps going and cancelling on you. See what his reasons are, and decide if you want to break up with him or not, it's your choice. But if he doesn't, I'd suggest breaking up with him, because what's a relationship if he's not even there to have it? But with this runner guy, I would see what happens whenever him and your friend break up, or I'd ask him how he feels about you and see if he likes you first before you go and do anything. Also, I might want to think about that, because I'm sure if him and your friend break up, and then you date him, your friend might get awfully mad, so if they DO break up, wait awhile for her to calm down about it and try and get over it and then ask her if she's okay with it. Otherwise, that might be a friendship lost. I hope I helped. <3
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DUH.Ofcourse you should dump him.He dates youre freind and your asking what to do?He doesnt even like you ,i think hes with you so he can get with your freinds only.What makes that true is that he always cancels with you before you guys go out.I think he just likes attention and is with you so he can brag to his freinds.Dump him before your relationship gets too serious and you start liking him too much.Your freind isnt that honest too,id say you keep away from her.
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well i had a similar problem but it was with my bff, i would ask her if she would want to sleepover lets say then at the last minute she would blow it off, even once when i had to invite someone to this project presentation, i invited her and she said yes, and she didnt come and ditched me. so i think that mabye theres alot going on and you should talk to your boyfriend about how you are feeling
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ask him straight out about it.
when he does it again just ask him calmly why he keeps cancelling on you. say you really like being with him and hanging with him. after that if he has a good reason stay with him or your choice. if you know he's lying about some stupid reason he gave you then maybe you should break it off.
hope i helped.
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