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Okay, so, a week ago, my boyfriend and I messed around... a lot. Although we didn't have sex and we were careful about everything, something happened that made him worry.
He came kind of on my stomach and it dripped down and kind of went down there. I wasn't worried because first of all, I was wearing a tampon, and second of all, I was on my period, so I didn't think anything could happen. Plus, I don't think you can get pregnant just by having cum in that area.
But he was all freaked out. And NOW, I've been having this brown discharge (I asked a question about it yesterday), and on a site, it said that brown discharge could be a sign of early pregnancy.
So... is it possible that I'm pregnant?? (link)
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Just to make it clear you COULD get pregnant if you're on your period.
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Would a 14 year old girl and a 17 year old guy workout in a relationship? (link)
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Yes. It can. I'm dating a guy who's 18 and I'm 14.
Just make sure he's a good guy and isn't playing with you or if you wants to get in your pants.
And believe me there's going to be people telling you to date people your own age...but don't listen. Its none of their business. Also, let your parents know. He could get arrested for dating you without your parents consent.
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is there any way to get rid of the oil on my face? i ahve a lot of oil on my face... any face washes or anything..? (link)
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Use oil absorbing sheets to remove the oil from your face during the day.
there are some cleaners to reduce oil. Biore has real good ones that work. Just use wahtever you find at a drug store or wherever.
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for a couple months ive been dying my hair lighter with one of those dying kits you can get at a pharmacy, and now i want to get the color out and go back to my natural color...i dont want to try and dye it back though becuase i have no idea what my natural color is anymore, and i dont want to spend a lot fo money...
any ideas? (link)
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First try to wash your hair as much as you can.
Let the dye fade out a bit.
Then try to find a dye that's as close as your natural hair color as you can remember.
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omg it is soo annoying. I never like people my own age. I'm 15/f, bi and the only person i like who remotely available is a junior! who will never ever go out with me. I always have crushes on older men and women, especially my teachers. Seriously, last year I had a huge crush on my history teacher. He wasn't even that hot but for some reason i was so in love. Then this year I like my soccer coach and also have the strongest, craziest feelings for my english teacher. She is so amazing, so wonderful. I put all my focus on doing well in that class just to impress her! What should I do? It's not like i'm gonna act on these feelings, i'm not stupid, but how can I like people my own age? For some reason I am so attracted to older people. (link)
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I guess this is how I am also. I'm going out with a guy 3 years older than me. And I was also dating a guy 5 years older.
You can't really do anythign about it. You can't force yourself to like someone just because you're the same age.
You could, though, hang around with people your own age. It'll make it easier to find someone around your age.
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how do you ask a boy out in a note please tell me (link)
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Don't.
Do it in person.
If you write it down on paper, it might sound the wrong way.
If you ask him out in person, you'll get to see his facial expression and how he reacts. It'll turn out better.
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are fishnets too slutty for halloween? in the picture of my costume the girl is wearing fishnets and i was gunna buy them,but my mom is saying if i wear fishnets all of my friends' moms are gunna think ima whore. is that true?? like i know halloween is for dressing up, but my best friend is going as a ninja turtle and ill be walking next to her in fishnets, and people might get the wrong opinoin of me, i dont want my friends mom to get the wrong idea and think im a slut,and tell people that i wore fishnets because they may not let their kids hang around me anymore.im only 14 help??? (link)
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I wouldnt think so.
It's halloween. Who cares?
Wear those fishnets.
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Who is Derek from the new season of One Tree Hill? (link)
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I don't know.
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hey i am 16 and female...i just recently moved but i have been considered depressed for 3 years but really didnt say anything but now after the move i feel worse...i am never really happy and i feel like i just really dont want to be here... how can i have happiness again..and how can i feel alive?
eissac
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Surround yourself with people that love you.
Go out. don't sit at home thinking about going out. Get a friend and have fun.
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Hey im in grade 11, i live in Ontario,Canada. Anny how my spanish class is going to spain this summer and we need to do alot of fund rasing to help lower the cost.
So my question is;
What are some good fund raser ideas that dont cost alot to do yet bring in a good profit?
Thanx a tun! (link)
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Bake and sell some cookies.
Sell old clothes.
Car Wash.
Yard Sell.
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does any1 know any good movies (link)
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yes.:
Back to the future I and II
Pulp Fiction
the little mermaid.
Saved!
Donnie darko.
Addams family.
Seven.
Fight Club.
Amelie.
Eternal sunshine f the spotless mind.
Jackasss I and II.
The Ring.
Scary Movie 2.
Virgin Suicides.
Edward Scissorhands.
Batman.
Willy Wonka and the Chocolate factory.
Nightmare before christmas
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I am 14 years old. I have tried to insert a tampon but it feels weird and it wont go in all the way!I dont know what to do and i dont know what im doing wrong. (link)
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If it feels weird just stick with pads.
It's easier.
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so it seems to me my boobs are shrinking. and idk if im losing weight or not but they are and im like always hard now for some reason. is there a reason for this? (link)
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you're probably just losing some weight.
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I'm 14/f and I'm a freshman at my high school. The problem is one of my "friends" let's call her Tina. Well, I've known her since the beginning of 8th grade and we were cool back then. I didn't reall know her but I thought she was nice and funny. But as our friendship progress that changed. She was so clingy saying I love you, You're my bestest friend for life! We have to be best friends FOREVER! And she was so freakishly self centered that it wasn't even funny. She cares about NO ONE but herself. If she did something wrong, she would blame someone else or make everyone feel guilty that they HAD to forgive her or THEY became the bad person. She is a scene and a emo poser as well as a druggie and a cutter. She think her life is so bad when it isn't. She's the only child so she gets whatever she wants, gets to do whatever she wants and everything with: whatever she wants in it. She "cuts" which are like paper cuts and no more and less sometimes. She would go around in gym screaming should I cut or not?! I'm like TINA SHUT UP! And she thinks shes a durggie because she's done drug ONCE. And it wasn't een serious and she ahted the feeling and vowed to never do it again. Keep that in mind for the next statement I will make: Whenever she doesn't get what she wants, she would go into another place and pretend to cut and my friends will go chasing after her to make her feel better while I'm left alone--and I won't go to comfort her anymore because I'm SICK of it. I mean I don't mind if she does it once in a while but everytime my friends and she and I meet, it's always the same. She needs ALL the attention and frankly, I'm tired of it and it's annoying. She would always hug me, claim me as her PROPERTY, she won't let me sit with anyone but her at lunch...the only way I can sit with my other friends is if I somehow get free from her gripping my shirt in the middle of the cafeteria, she hugs me, she acts like a BABY. And with what I said above know this: she has SERIOUS hygene problems. She never brushes her teeth. She takes a shower once a week. Deoderant is her shower. She changes her clothes..eh maybe 2-3 days..I mean it's disgustiong and her hugging me in public, rolling in my bed, holding my hand. UHG. Now that is not the only reason adnI know that what I just say is shallow but come on! I can't deal with this. I want to just break off the friendship with her. I'm sick of it. But if I do, my friends WILL turn against me, the class we are in together will be chaotic, and etc etc. And another thing, she just got back srugery and that would make me look REALLY bad if I break of the friendship with her now. WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH THIS TINA!!! (link)
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talk to her about it.
tell her what she's doing is stupid. obviously she wants the attention. when she goes on and on about her cutting herself, ignore her. if no one pays attention to her, she wont do it anymore.
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So for Halloween, does anyone have any good ideas for a girl who is like, preppy? I dont want to wear like an actual costume. I was thinking of just wearing a crown with my normal clothes, or I was going to wear this hot pink boa. Any other ideas? THANKS SO MUCH! (link)
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With your hot pink boa you could be a burlesque dancer.
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ok..so i really wanna be a fashion designer...my back up plan is being a lawyer. but fashion design is my number one. The only problem is I heard fashion design is super hard to get into((and i wanna do like a big job like Gucci etc,))
So is it hard?..or should i just become a lawyer. I dont wanna own my own shop or anything i want to do the fashion shows and stuff. Some advice would be nice =) I need to know now because i need to know what courses i should take during my highschool career. (link)
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Everything you do is gonna be hard.
Do you really think trying to be a lawyer is gonna be easier?
Go with what you really want...which you made clear is being a Fashion Designer.
Go with it.
and stick with it.
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i'm jealous of everything about my sister. she has always had it easier than me since as long as i can remember. she has perfect hair, shes skinny, big brown eyes, her eyelashes are so long it looks like shes wearing make-up 24/7, perfect smile, great fashion sense, lots of guys and lots of friends and everyone is nicer and likes her better than me, its extremely obvious when we are together. i look at her and think about all the things she has that i don't...i'm average sized, shorter than her,(im older!)my hair is extremely high maitence, i have trouble making friends,my make up is always taking forever, i look like total poop if i don't work REALLY hard to look good, my grades aren't as good as hers, my parents make me do ALL of the chores because shes busy cherleading,(another thing that pisses me off)and what bothers me the most is that she can easily smile everyday while i have to force a smile just so people don't know how i really feel. please help me find an answer...thank you for even bothering to read this (link)
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I sometimes feel this way towards my sisters.
But...i let it go.
Try not to compare youself with her. You and your sister are two completely different people. With different lives. You may not know it but she might not be happy with herself. You never know.
Just focus on what's great about yourself. You have your own things going on, she has hers.
I'm sure there's things you like about yourself. And surround yourself with people you love and that love you back.
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i didnt know what category to put this in but oh well..
ok i have this friend (lets call him Joe) and hes Russian. he wasnt born in Russia but his parents were. they really scare me. whenever i try to call this is what happens...
Me-hi is joe there?
His mom-why
Me-i want to talk to him please
His mom-why
Me-**freeze and hang up**
i just dont know how i can get through and talk to him. i havent talked to him ALL summer and there are some issues i need to work out with him..but thats a whole other story. please help i really need to talk to him. (link)
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say:
CAUSE I WANT TO!fuck.
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13/f
I'm not really shy in case that helps.
I sit next to this one guy in three of my classes. He's really funny, nice, and a really good friend to have. No, I don't like him. I'm friends with his about five or six of his good friends, but not him. I'm not sure if he even knows my name! He doesn't hate me or think I'm weird, though. Is there any way I can become friends with him? (Like some way to start a conversation without sounding like some stalker/freak or at least let him know that I'm alive and I have a name?! Don't say flirting because I end up looking like a freak.) (link)
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if youre friend with his friends just tell them whenever you're around them invite that other boy over. casual talk.
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i need some help here.my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months now and our realationship is doing fine but i think there's a problem.everytime i ask him to go somewhere with me like a week before we go he says yeah.but at the last minute he'll call and say he can't go.i that always makes me made but i didn't tell him.i'm a rookie runner for my schools marching band and my 3 friends are runners but there's another rookie who is a year younger then all of us and he's really cute and i like him like him.hes funny and nice and cute.but then he starts dating my friend.but my other runner friend said that they probably won't last.he's the only boy runner and he even said he don't think the realationship will last.and i can't take my bf canceling on me the last minute.it makes me think that he doesnt wanna do anything with me.so my question is should i dump my bf and go with the runner when they break up or should i stay with me bf???
sry my questions too long. (link)
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ask him straight out about it.
when he does it again just ask him calmly why he keeps cancelling on you. say you really like being with him and hanging with him. after that if he has a good reason stay with him or your choice. if you know he's lying about some stupid reason he gave you then maybe you should break it off.
hope i helped.
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