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i'm jealous of everything about my sister
i'm jealous of everything about my sister. she has always had it easier than me since as long as i can remember. she has perfect hair, shes skinny, big brown eyes, her eyelashes are so long it looks like shes wearing make-up 24/7, perfect smile, great fashion sense, lots of guys and lots of friends and everyone is nicer and likes her better than me, its extremely obvious when we are together. i look at her and think about all the things she has that i don't...i'm average sized, shorter than her,(im older!)my hair is extremely high maitence, i have trouble making friends,my make up is always taking forever, i look like total poop if i don't work REALLY hard to look good, my grades aren't as good as hers, my parents make me do ALL of the chores because shes busy cherleading,(another thing that pisses me off)and what bothers me the most is that she can easily smile everyday while i have to force a smile just so people don't know how i really feel. please help me find an answer...thank you for even bothering to read this
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youve got to stop comparing yourself to your sister your completley different people. its a good thing to be different from her. Try to be your own person rather try being like her because it sounds like no matter what you do you can never be lyk her. be glad for who you are and im sure youll be happier
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Why would you want to be her? Don't you think maybe it'll get tiring to be perfect? People have their mistakes and their problems. You're shy, she isn't. You are completely different people. I bet she has problems about you. So she's pretty? 72% of guys just go after girls for their looks, would you want that to happen to you? Would you want that to happen to your little sister? You look at all the things you DON'T have, what about the characteristics you do? Sorry I'm a bit bitchy today but I hope I helped knack you into sense.
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I sometimes feel this way towards my sisters.
But...i let it go.
Try not to compare youself with her. You and your sister are two completely different people. With different lives. You may not know it but she might not be happy with herself. You never know.
Just focus on what's great about yourself. You have your own things going on, she has hers.
I'm sure there's things you like about yourself. And surround yourself with people you love and that love you back.
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