k, so me and the ex. we dated for over 2 years. he broke up with me because he thought we were too serious. it's been about a month now, he's over it. i'm not. what are things i can do to completely get over it, besides hang out with friends (they all work a lot), find another guy (im not interested yet), or write. please help me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Sunday August 27 2006, 12:37 am: That happened to me too once, I know it really hurts and it's really hard to get over him and keep your mind off of him. Just, whatever reminds you of him, songs, pictures, whatever. Just put them away for awhile and don't listen to them or look at them. And all else I can really say is just go on and live your life. Do things you've wanted to do lately, go shopping, exercise, draw, pick up a new hobby maybe, read a book, do some community service, buy a new really hard video game, etc. It's not that easy at first, but then after awhile, you'll start to think of him less and less until one day.. gone. I hope I helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
ADDiCT3DTOHiMx answered Friday August 25 2006, 5:11 pm: I've been through almost the same thing. It hurts, and i was really upset as well. All i can really say is just live your life, dont hold back with anything that comes to you because life goes on. If you waste your life worried and confused about everything life will pass you by. Good luck, and feel better! [ ADDiCT3DTOHiMx's advice column | Ask ADDiCT3DTOHiMx A Question ]
KristinaMariexo answered Friday August 25 2006, 1:16 am: Awww thats sad, i understand breaking up is a huge thing, getting over a person takes time. you need to learn that your an amazing person and you want him to want you back. Start look for a guy, you say your not interested but you have to be! to get over him its the only way. [ KristinaMariexo's advice column | Ask KristinaMariexo A Question ]
caramella answered Thursday August 24 2006, 8:45 pm: He obviously never liked you,if he did he wouldnt have broken up with you and got over you that fast.What you need is a looong vacation away from where youre living now.Go somewhere different and stay there for a month or two.Itll help you relax and think things right.Florida has really good beaches.At least you know that he wasnt true to you,its good that he told you now,of he woulda told you later,it woulda been worse because you woulda loved him MORE. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
trishieloo answered Thursday August 24 2006, 8:31 pm: Well I think you just answered your own question. Those are the basic things that you can do. I also sugest finding a new hobby, something you two never did together that you can do by yourself. [ trishieloo's advice column | Ask trishieloo A Question ]
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