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my mom
hey im 13-f and i love my mom more than anything. shes older than most moms thi-shes about to turn 55.. i no most moms with 13 year old kids are lik in there 40's... my mom has great health.. she doesnt do drugs she excercises almost everyday and she eats right. im just scared of her getting older.. i just always want her to be young which i no isnt possible but i always want her to be able to have fun and be mobile and everything. i guess im just scared of death and her getting older.. just the thought of her being like 60 and me only being 18 scares me. cuz im scared that she wont be able to excercise as much.. i dont know.. and i always like do the math like ok when im 20 she already be like 62.. and shell be 80 when im only like 38 or somethin.. i just love her more than anything and i dont want anything to ever happen to her. i just need like a pep talk or somethin idk... just help me. please.. i just love her sooo much
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Wow, I agree with you too. I thought I'm the only child with an older mom. I'm turning 14 in September 13 this year and my mom is I going to be turnig 55 or 56. I love my mom so much; she's the whole world to me. I hang with her, I do everything with her and I love to do things with her. I still think when I'm only 20, she'll be in her early 60's. My dream is that she'll be their for college and when I have my first apartment and stuff. There'sa lot of more things going to happen in my life, and I want my mom to be their. I would love to pay a trip for her to go to England just her and I in the future because we plan that. I love her so much, and I'm afraid she'll pass away before I even get to college. The thing is, it's fate. You'll have to live it just like I. Just remember the positive things and there's a reason she pass away. It will be the hardest moment too. The thing is, I'm adopted! My real mom is chinese and my adopted mother (i've known her 10 years) Even though she's not by blood, in the past I think I was her mom too.
Hope it helps and I will know someone will sob with me.
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Since you can't change your Mom's age, don't worry about it. We should only dwell on things that we can change. If your Mom is taking care of herself she will most likely live a long and healthy life. I work in assisted living, and many kids who are in their 40s have parents in their 80s. Feel blessed to have an "older" mom because life experience teaches us a lot, and your Mom is probably more stable due to her age. These days people are living longer healthier lives...and 50 is the new 30. After working with the elderly all day--and having many employees in their 50s..55 seems so young! Bless you for loving your Mom so much...you deserve a hug!
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well, you can guess that she is going to live for a while...she sounds really healthy. But there isn't much I can tell you about the subject. You can't just assume that she is going to get weak though. My grandma is like...in her 80's and she still is very active. Just believe in her, and make sure that you support her. No matter what you two will love eachother. It will all work out in the end. I know that I didn't do very well...but I hope that I helped just a little, and remember, my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate, but it would be nice. Thanks!
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I can totally relate--in a sense. My mom is my best friend. We do everything together. My biggest fear is her not being here for me or being able to do things (her health is not great). While sometimes those facts get me down, I have to remind myself that hard as it may be, it's life process. You have to cherish everything and every moment. Live without regret. You have to keep the memories alive--no matter what. Have mom and daughter days. When you have the oppurtunity to watch a good movie together--do it. Take lots of pictures. Write. Laugh. Live. Tell your mom how you feel. Or when she asks about your day, don't just say "fine". I know it's scary when you think about the possible future, but you can't let yourself dwell on it too much because you pass up so many great experience during that time. You just have to remind yourself that no matter you are your mom's daughter, and you carry parts of her in you. Don't feel alone either, a lot of people have this same fear/anxiety. Just live in the moment. :)
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