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Posted Tuesday September 5 2006, 5:29 am
I want more than being friends. This guy and I have had a history together. [Long one by the way *over a year*] and we are getting closer again. Two nights ago he randomly brought up why he hasn't asked me out yet. It's because he's afraid. He doesn't want to hurt me because I mean a lot to him. I had a talk about how if we did go out, the relationship would be a lot healthier for us. It wouldn't take over our lifes completely. But it didn't really get anywhere. I just want him to understand that things could work a lot better than before. Should I say anything to him? Should I just be happy and see how things go? I dont know what to do.
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Posted Tuesday September 5 2006, 5:26 am
I'm confused. 15/f
My ex girlfriend is flirting with me [she has a boyfriend though] and she keeps saying she wants to kiss me. Knowing her... she would. But she told me she doesn't want me to get the wrong idea. Then she goes on about having dreams about me and missing me, missing the things we did. and then there's things about "If only I didn't mess up" [when she broke up with me] "I will always have a thing for you" "Can i steal a kiss?" A part of me wants to kiss her but I can't because I refuse to do that when she has a boyfriend.. I dont know what to do. She says she doesn't want to lead me on but she's already doing that. What can I do? Just ignore the things she says?
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what is wrong with me?
Posted Tuesday September 5 2006, 4:17 am
I broke up with my bf of nearly 4 years about 3 months ago. He was emotionally and mentally abusive to me. I had been in councelling for a while and I thought I had nearly got over him. Well yesterday I decided to sign up for a dating site. I actually received about 4 responses to my profile. Instead of contacting these guys that wrote me; I got freaked out and deleted my profile. Does anyone know what is wrong with me?
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Christian devoted girlfriend
Posted Tuesday September 5 2006, 2:37 am
In highschool I learned that don't just getgirlfriend because you want it and that's what God wants in my youth club. I agree with my leaders. How do I find one? How do I get the courage to ask? To date? To entertain her?
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i need him
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 10:54 pm
i have this guy that i love and he loves me but we can't seem to get together for sum gay ass reason and i love him so much i'm depressed i cry every night and he calls me sometimes but he is acting so weird to me and i hate it i love him so much love really doesn't even explain it but i need him more than anything in my life please help me get him back i love him so much!
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Ok so theres this guy..and i thik he likes me but..
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 10:36 pm
im 14 hes 15 (im a girl) and he splashes me when im not swmiming, and when i called him to invite im to a flashlight tag party he kept trying to talk to me and stuff then he said happy birthday to me and my birthday was 2 months ago. He also asked me if i was going to a back to school thing and i guess he wanted to see me or something. he also is kina looking at me alot, i barley see him but when i do he looks at me alot and always talks to me but not out of his way i dont think. anyway does this mean he likes me i dont really like him like that but mabe i would if ya know...
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questions
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 8:52 pm
what kind of questions should you ask a girl to help you get to know her better
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im in love with my brothers best friend ♥
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 7:59 pm
you seem like a pretty cool person - hopefully you'll understand . alright , im 12 years old & my brother is 14 . he has a TOTALLY adorable friend . i always joke around with him that he likes me like STOP HITTING ON ME ! and all that .. but we went to michigan for the weekend [ my brother , my parents , bros friend , my friend & me ] yeah . and my friend kept giving hints to him that i liked him . so he pretty much picked up that i was fucking insanely CRAZY for him . and i fell asleep , and he carried me to my bed , and he would keep making jokes to my friend that he should kisss me when he thought i was sleeping .. so yeahh . im really in love with him & i promise you its not normal 12 year old love . i really wanna spend the...
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army/ overeacting
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 7:10 pm
Well first off, my boyfriend is going away for training for the army wich is for half a year, and the most i didnt see him for before was only for two days. Idk what to do i still want to be with him, But he doesnt trust me, he thinks im going to do stupid stuff because hes gone. & im not because it wouldnt be worth it , but how do i get him to trust me, and how do i cope with his leaving, and how do i comfort him about him not knowing whats going in my life.
second off, i hurt all the time, i mean its over little things to. Like i hate it when my boyfriend has conversations with girls or when another girl makes him smile, but i always try and tell myself that hes my boyfriend not there and this never works. i don...
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unrequited love
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 6:05 pm
first of all i think i spelled unrequited wrong but whatever. 13/f ok well i really, really, really like this guy A LOT! but there are a few problems. 1. he has a girflried 2. she is one of my friends 3. we (me and him) are really good friends 4. well we're always joking around and we're the kind of friends whose conversations go like: your ugly! your mom! go die! but we're always totally kidding 5. it's really complicated 6. even if he broke up with his girflriend, I don't think he would like me
so I don't know what to do. I REALLY REALLY REALLY like him! please give me some advice
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She doesn't seem to want to talk to me
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 2:32 pm
So I have liked this girl pretty much all of my life. I have been talking to her every once in a while trying to build courage and so I finally attempt to call her and tell her how I feel about her. I had to text her first to make sure it was alright to call. She said she was about to eat dinner with the family so she'd tell me when it was alright. She can't talk past a certain time and she texted me after that time and said that she couldn't talk now because it was past the time and wanted me to text what I wanted to say instead.
I'm pretty sure she knows what I'm trying to tell her since someone pretty much told her I liked her. So I said I rather call her instead and asked if i could call tommorrow. She said she didn't kno...
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My best friend boyfriend
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 2:27 pm
My best friend and me like the same guy but i dont want to tell her that i like him to. She talks about him all the time and it makes me sad becuase i have to keep my feeling inside. He asked her to homecoming so i dont know what to do. If i should tell her how i feel or just go on like nothing happen
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homecoming
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 2:08 pm
i'm going to homecoming in a group with all my friends, and the guy i want to notice me is going too. he doesn't have a date, but i don't know how to get him to ask me to dance. and i also don't know what to do during slow dances. i'm going to their homecoming even though i don't go to their school, so i don't know any of the other guys so they won't ask me. but i don't want to look stupid and just standing there during the slow dances. and i don't want to ask him to dance. so that's not an option. what do i do during it? dancing with girls is funny for a minute or two but after that i think it gets old.
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my boyfriend
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 1:52 pm
16/m
Hi- I had sex with my boyfriend about 3 months ago without realizing he had HIV.. I asked him..and he lied and told me he didn't have it..
So- When I went for my yearly doctor check-up(last week).. my doctor wanted to give me an HIV test because I'm homosexual..
and it came out positive.. and I know its from my boyfriend because he's the only one i've had sex with.. ever..
So should I be mad at my boyfriend? or should I be mad at myself because I didn't know he had HIV...
Also- my doctor told me that my HIV is going to result in AIDS in about 5 years..
Please help!
-Jason
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My boyfriend likes my girlfriend.....
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 1:49 pm
I think my boyfriend and one of my best friends may have feelings for each other. They've always been friendly with each other, but lately it's more than that. They're always really playful - joking/laughing together, and they've been quite touchy feely of late, too. The other day I watched them when they thought I wasn't looking, and she said something to him and he started laughing like it was the funniest thing ever and he kinda slapped/punched her on the shoulder. Then he pulled her woolen hat down over the back of her head for her....the whole time I watched she was fiddling/playing with his jacket, and she even touched his face a couple times.....
Am I totally over-reacting here? Maybe they're innocent? What do I do?
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How do i get closer
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 1:02 pm
Okay i have this good friend of mine and well i wanna get closer with her before i ask her out, please advise a few ways i can do this without letting on that i like her
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Having a baby.
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 12:55 pm
Let me start of by saying, I'm 18 and I'm not in college yet, I'll be going when I'm 19, right now I have a job and I pay for an apartment. I wanted to experince life alittle after highschool. I have a boyfriend, He's 20. I've dated him, for about 2 years. My parents don't like him, I don't think they understand the relationship. My mom says he's to old for me? My dad thinks I can do better. He's a really great guy though and I truely thought my parents would have loved him. He is in college, Has a job and he's really nice to everybody. Me & him never had sex until alittle while ago, I told him i wanted to wait intil after highschool, he understood me. My first time ever having sex, I got pregnant. I'm on birth control & we used a c...
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Where's the love?!!!
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 12:27 pm
i am 17 years old, female and i never had a boyfriend nor had a real first kiss. i feel like i can't get to know a guy because it feels like he thinks im not attractive . my question is, what do i need to do to get over my fear of talking to guys. i would really like to have a guys point of view and a girls.
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break up
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 11:38 am
My boyfriend and I just broke up, and now I'm very depressed, I don't know what I should do to make me feel any better. Tomorrow's the first day of school and I don't wanna look too depresse and everything. What would I have to do to try to forget about this?
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whats going on in his mind!?
Posted Monday September 4 2006, 2:09 am
im soo sorry this is so long :(
13/f
okay so theres this guy and during the summer we got close and even started tlking to eachother like "hey sexy" sorta thing. we even tlked on the phone once and he called me once but i couldnt answer. it always seemed like he sorta liked me because of the way he talked to me, and how when i asked him if i could trust him he said " yes you can trust me. you always can." and one time he thought i was mad at him and i told him no never he said " ok good cuz i didnt want one of the coolest girls at school to hate me." and i of course told him i could never hate him. so not too long ago me and my cousin were hanging out and being hyper when she dare...
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