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Where's the love?!!!
i am 17 years old, female and i never had a boyfriend nor had a real first kiss. i feel like i can't get to know a guy because it feels like he thinks im not attractive . my question is, what do i need to do to get over my fear of talking to guys. i would really like to have a guys point of view and a girls.
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What is it that make you feel unattractive?
Weight?
Handicap?
Physical appearance?
Guy are stuck on all of these, especially so at age 17. However, women are very poor judges of what they look like. The bottom line is guys at 17 are attracted to the unattainable. If you dont like the way you look, then do something about it. You are 17. Your prime will be 18-25. Take a year off of guys and dedicate yourself to a work out regimine. Don't do it for a week, do not quit. Join a gym, and forget about the social circle. When and if you go to college YOU will laugh at your silly high school crush's. It's best to go in great physical shape. Unfortunately, looks are always the first step to the first kiss. Unless of course the guy just wants to get laid which also is pretty popular in guys from 17, to well umm 65.
good luck.
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